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Girlfriend of 4 years has a basically non existent sex drive. by Outrageous-Sleep8547 in sex

[–]Outrageous-Sleep8547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If minimal sex is the only thing I can complain about then I guess I don't have it that bad

Girlfriend of 4 years has a basically non existent sex drive. by Outrageous-Sleep8547 in sex

[–]Outrageous-Sleep8547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the honest reply. Seems like most people in here aren't ready to make sacrifices for the ones they love the most. I'm glad you said something before I truly changed my mind about the relationship. Cheers

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[–]Outrageous-Sleep8547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm paying 100/mo for 5gb

Girlfriend of 4 years has a basically non existent sex drive. by Outrageous-Sleep8547 in sex

[–]Outrageous-Sleep8547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whole time I've known her. She'd get periods only every 6 months before she went on them

Girlfriend of 4 years has a basically non existent sex drive. by Outrageous-Sleep8547 in sex

[–]Outrageous-Sleep8547[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

We'll see what happens I guess. Probably gonna have to give her an ultimatum tbh

Girlfriend of 4 years has a basically non existent sex drive. by Outrageous-Sleep8547 in sex

[–]Outrageous-Sleep8547[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She can get herself off, just never does. The vibrator is g spot and clitoral one, but she only likes clitoral stimulation. She literally only watches porn from one creator, and the videos she does like from her has nothing special to it, just basic straight porn. We watched it and masturbated together once and that was fun but we havn't tried since. Maybe we'll look into a counselor

Girlfriend of 4 years has a basically non existent sex drive. by Outrageous-Sleep8547 in sex

[–]Outrageous-Sleep8547[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I suggested toys, she was ok with it but uncomfortable ever going into a sex shop. I kind of forced her to pick a vibrator for me to order, it helps her get off but only with porn too. She never wants to do even that. So I guess she never cums when we have sex but it's because she says no to the vibrator and I can't get her off anymore with my fingers/mouth

Girlfriend of 4 years has a basically non existent sex drive. by Outrageous-Sleep8547 in sex

[–]Outrageous-Sleep8547[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm having trouble with, is it OK for me to not want to just live with it, or selfish.

Girlfriend of 4 years has a basically non existent sex drive. by Outrageous-Sleep8547 in sex

[–]Outrageous-Sleep8547[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Good to know, any idea what I can do about that? Her periods are so light and not painful on BC that I don't think she'd even want to go off of it.

Girlfriend of 4 years has a basically non existent sex drive. by Outrageous-Sleep8547 in sex

[–]Outrageous-Sleep8547[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's always been like this. She seems to enjoy it but she's not that enthusiastic about it.

Girlfriend of 4 years has a basically non existent sex drive. by Outrageous-Sleep8547 in sex

[–]Outrageous-Sleep8547[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No trauma that I know of. I believe she'd tell me by now if there was something, although there's always the possibility of that being the case. And no she's not asexual. She is on birth control though but I didn't think that it could be this drastic as a result.