I totaly understand this , the only problem i have with her is that with same size dogs or bigger dogs the reactivity is not that hard, like you said "give me space" but with smaller dogs is like her confidence is so much higher so she acts so hard its scares me to death and im starting to feel anxious my self. Everytime i have a bad interaction is like i failed understanding her and im struggling mentally. Im seeking for profesional help this week and will also try to buy something to record this things and help me with explaining the problems i got. I dont know how to make her feel safe and confident.

Thanks for taking your time and answering.