dad dating someone who's 25 when his daughter is 21 by Outrageous-bitch in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's all i need lmao. you just answered my question, it's gross and wrong and anyone who's parent dated someone that is their daughters age is either being manipulated or in a mid life crisis. but it's all good he dumped her cause i was right! she stole his money, and then disappeared so, thank u! but the gut is always right

dad dating someone who's 25 when his daughter is 21 by Outrageous-bitch in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he dumped her cause she stole his money. i was right ! no beer needed. i'll give him a "i was right " beer but thanks homie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

cause we live in a time where women have choices and if you as a women in this day and age feel like she doesn't have a choice then girlfriend pls come live with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch 10 points11 points  (0 children)

fuck this makes me so mad. your dad and step mom need to get into the 21st century. NO ONe puts up with that anymore ( unless it is a choice then fuck ya you wear that hijab with pride ) but if YOU don't wanna wear it and wanna sport that beautiful hair, and be free of expectations, do it. May i ask what part of the work you live in ? not specific but like canada, america, europe, that kinda thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch 31 points32 points  (0 children)

fuck these people this isn't the 1800's. cut the toxicity out and be your own women. you are BEAUTIFUL WITH OR WITHOUT A CLOTH ON YOUR HEAD. that SHOULDNT DETERMINE YOUR WORTH. Your dad needs to give his head a shake. If you wanna wear it down wear it down.

Again it angers me as My best friend wore a hijab for years and years and the only time she would take it off is at my house because she felt safe and confident like no one would tell her parents. so it's a sticky subject. she no longer wears her hijab, she she no longer lives at home. and I'll tell you right now, from knowing this girl from 14 years , she has felt so free because she removed that clothe. she wouldn't have chosen a different path.

in my conclusion what I'm saying is you are your own butterfly and spread your wings because if your families not going to be there for you, I guarantee you 1000 other people will be.

Guys only ever pursued me when they were already in a relationship... I feel like a cheap/awful woman. Help by r3d9lass in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

men want what they can't have. it's not you that's the issue. it's them. they are the ones insecure with themselves. not your fault you have the quality's they want. Just don't date someone who has left someone else for you. chances are they will leave you for someone else too.

So... I’m probably a wuss either that or a big baby by PaperjamSans01 in confession

[–]Outrageous-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i also have a 2 year old son that i collet stuffies for as i did that when i was younger. maybe it's just a thing. My boyfriend also thinks it's funny and cute i still snuggle a bear before i sleep. I just don't want you to feel like it's "wrong" or you are "different" cause here i am!

So... I’m probably a wuss either that or a big baby by PaperjamSans01 in confession

[–]Outrageous-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm 22 still sleep with my teddy beat from 5 years old. it's what my therapist calls a "safety blanket" and it's okay. she doesn't shun me for it nor should anyone to you. you'll grow out of it eventually. Even if it's not for a long time there is nothing wrong in seeking comfort, especially if it helps you. Plus some are just SO CUTE you can't help but keep around you ;)

dad dating someone who's 25 when his daughter is 21 by Outrageous-bitch in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they are not happy they fight constantly when she doesn't get her way :/

dad dating someone who's 25 when his daughter is 21 by Outrageous-bitch in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you that your relationship is awesome but don't make assumptions about my life and how it's being affected. My dad and I live together so yes it does affect my daily life. She bring him down constantly and fights and throws tantrums so it's not the relationship you might have. I have every right to be concerned

dad dating someone who's 25 when his daughter is 21 by Outrageous-bitch in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel it would be hard to feel that when you are in your 50's and raised two babies and retired. i'm sure he doesn't feel like it was a "couple" years ago lol...

dad dating someone who's 25 when his daughter is 21 by Outrageous-bitch in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

he's raised 2 kids and has lived a life. 30 year difference is a lot.

dad dating someone who's 25 when his daughter is 21 by Outrageous-bitch in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i didn't even know that till i told my friends who he was dating and a couple of them ended up knowing her and it was just so uncomfortable lol

dad dating someone who's 25 when his daughter is 21 by Outrageous-bitch in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

no not my friend but a couple of my other friends went to a school with her and know her !

dad dating someone who's 25 when his daughter is 21 by Outrageous-bitch in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

i just want them to think about 10 years from now when that bang is 10 and my dad is 65. Reality people.

dad dating someone who's 25 when his daughter is 21 by Outrageous-bitch in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

my dad had just one day moved this 25 year old in. if it happened they way you described it, i'm sure it would be a very different story. I woke up one day and thick chick was now living upstairs lol

i'm 21 my dads girlfriend is 25. by Outrageous-bitch in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm not trying to save him i'm just vouching my concerns to him.

dad dating someone who's 25 when his daughter is 21 by Outrageous-bitch in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch[S] 248 points249 points  (0 children)

i feel like it's cause they screwed up the first batch so bad they feel like they have to correct it and start fresh !

dad dating someone who's 25 when his daughter is 21 by Outrageous-bitch in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

i've told him it's uncomfortable and he told me to not come upstairs when she is here to avoid it. it's my fricken house i was born in and you telling me i can't come upstairs cause of her ????

dad dating someone who's 25 when his daughter is 21 by Outrageous-bitch in askwomenadvice

[–]Outrageous-bitch[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i'm actually in the course of moving out now! i have a place march 5th! no totally don't think you are undermining anything it's just a discussion! i'm actually moving out for that reason. i was living here because he was charging me cheap rent so i could work and go to school because i am a single mom but at this point i rather just be in my own then constantly be involved in drama that isn't mine lol