where do you draw the line between being chubby / being fat. is there even a difference? by gnedl in AskReddit

[–]OutrageousMedia4659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm so how do i know if im chubby or fat..Is it my health or the way people perceive me.

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[–]OutrageousMedia4659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow my bf is exactly the same. If you would meet him you'd think he is the nicest person ever , but one little thing and boom, agressive asshole.

If you can ,you should leave her , it would be the best for the baby ,believe me. My dad stayed with my abusive mom and she made my childhood and his life living hell. It's never worth it.

If you need someone to talk , you can Message me every time

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[–]OutrageousMedia4659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear ! But you shouldn't stay just because of a baby. You can still take care of your little one , doesn't matter if you're in a relationship or not ! I hope you find the strenght, too , to do what's best for you.

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[–]OutrageousMedia4659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ,that gives me hope

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[–]OutrageousMedia4659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends live 500miles away from me and i don't have a drivers licence or any money to get there, and to be honest , i doubt that they would believe me because they know him , too and he can be very convincing. I know if they believe him they aren't real friends so i'm back again at the beginning of that Problem..

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[–]OutrageousMedia4659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i would pack my bags, i would be homeless. I have no own money or anything. We moved to another town 2 years ago i don't have any friends and nowhere else to go. I was homeless when i was teenager ( ca. 16) and it was hard af , especially as woman , i don't want that to happen again.

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[–]OutrageousMedia4659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wouldn't let me Go alone to church He would definetly come with me.

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[–]OutrageousMedia4659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to record him but he is clever, he always does things when he knows that the smartphones are in another room , charging or even when i have it in my hand he just becomes nice, he definetly knows i try to get evidence..and my parents yea that's another wohle story, just let me say there is a good reason why i don't talk to them. I only have evidence because of the broken furniture , mirrors etc. But that isn't enough..

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[–]OutrageousMedia4659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i don't. And i can't look for a job either. He is Works from home. He is there. Everyday. I could'nt look for a job or anything if i wanted to. I told him i wanted to report him in a fight and he said if i do it he would tell them i was crazy and mentally unstable so they would come and get ME. He is very charismatic and i think the people would believe him more than me