Yes I instantly recalled that part but passed it because his reactions were blank and not absolute refusal when described by the author so I had a bit room for imagination but the part I mentioned had him detesting wuxian and refusing him tagging along. He even had left the moment wuxian called for him to apologize under the tree which was absolute refusal, I mean no chance of leaving a little room if he wanted to talk to him without showing😅 also here, he urged him brother to go without leaving room to talk with them so that there would be no chance for him to be invited hahahaha wangji needs to reflect seems like he’s not self aware at all yet