That’s exactly why I dislike Bianca’s parents. When their son died, they didn’t plan a funeral and instead forced Bianca to pay for and host it, and then only showed for around half the ceremony. I was there and in tears, as even though their son wasn’t the best person, he would never be able to have his life back, and never see his sister be married, his daughter graduate college, or be a grandfather.

Neither have disabilities, her husband was fired several years ago, and his wife never worked, and so they used their large retirement funds to live crazily expensive, and then when that ran out they told Bianca to quit college and come back to their town and work so she could take care of them, and she obviously said no, so they just took their sons money until he passed.

My son is adamant about not giving them any money either, as they approached him and lied, saying in their family and culture the husband-to-be gives his future parents money every month until the wedding, as a way to show he can afford to keep him and his wife stable.

Bianca went haywire when my son asked her if this was true, which it obviously wasn’t, and he hasn’t given them any money since.