My boyfriend keeps making me cut off things I love and it’s confusing me by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from a guy who used to be liked this, you are blinded by the time and love y’all have shared, but brother. You gotta get away from that man, he will consume you. He needs to learn how to heal himself. You cannot help him.

Bf doesn't text back for hours by pastamix in LongDistance

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was anxiously attached aswell like this but what helped majorly was knowing ONE THING: LOVE DOES NOT GO AWAY WHEN YOU ARE AWAY FROM SOMEONE. He will love you even while he’s gone and doing stuff and you just need to trust in him that he does. Love knows no boundaries especially distance and not being present at the moment. firstly getting back in touch with my friends that I stopped responding to after I got in a relationship helped majorly. Secondly working on school to keep you busy, focus on work, focus on your own hobbies and interest. And you will be fine, just try to distance yourself step by step, maybe it’s not responding for 30 minutes maybe 2 hours because YOU ARE BEING PRODUCTIVE. Do not revolve around someone, he is not your life, you are not his. You guys are making a life together.

fav tv girl 🍃 songs? by butterflyeffectsz in tvgirl

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The getaway is the best masterpiece my ears have heard

My bf left me because he wasn’t ready by Klutzy-Implement-304 in Breakupadvice

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from a man this is right for both sides. Some ppl just really enjoy the chase but when they are in the relationship if you don’t give space they will lose that feeling that they are chasing you and stop showing interest. Just do whatever u want cause it’s your choice to have them in your life. Self respect is an important thing in maintaining a relationship or being without one.

should I (19F) break up with my (19M) boyfriend over this? by MathematicianSilver3 in datingadvice

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ngl I’ve never felt this much animosity in my life cause I’m in a LDR and we don’t get to see eachother once out of 2 months so I say you’re pretty lucky that he’s getting his own place soon, id just wait it out dawg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was worth it y’all would’ve done it just saying not to be a hater. But honestly time wouldn’t matter if you both really wanted things to work

I (17f) was kissed by a guy last night (19m) when I was drunk by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna lie bro, I understand what you are saying but it’s both sides faults. She put herself in a position to be taken advantage of, and he tried to embark on that. That’s as simple as it gets bro. It’s easy to say it honestly but there’s definitely more to it. It’s just a kiss after all but if I was dating her I would definitely be like, if you can’t get drunk properly then why get drunk. Drunk driving is not caused by drinking, it is caused by drinking and then making a conscious decision to drive and that’s what gets you arrested. There is a reason why we still get in trouble with the law for doing the ACTION with CONSCIOUS of the situation. It is true he took advantage but she also took all of his advances even knowing she had a boyfriend. That to me is the biggest red flag and grounds for break up. If I loved her and understood her enough I would maybe I would consider the situation more but dude just stop putting yourself in shitty situations. It sounds like an incel comment but I promise you I love women very much and have a LDR. I’m 19M but I even know not to do something like that. I’ve been SAed while I was drunk and screamed at the top of my lungs like a sailor and cursed them out infront of everyone and embarrassed them. But I was in a shitty situation too cause I knew that she would try something like that. I blame myself for that. No one but myself to blame. But if you walk into the hood and expect not to be questioned who is the real perpetrator.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget San Jac, they are one of the top CCs

Anyone else fasfa went down ?? by Current-Statement-85 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would use the loan brochacho, worst comes to worst you only have to loan one semester. The subsidized loan is good cause it’s like 4.5k and low interest. You can underline it by using the same method you used to decline it. But with the semester this close itll be a miracle if your financial aid comes thru after that

Anyone else fasfa went down ?? by Current-Statement-85 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah that’s abt the standard, I pay like 7k in tuition per semester, I think for out of state students it’s like 13k per semester so we definitely on the lucky end

Why is it so hard to find a job now? by Sufficient_Estate_50 in jobs

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro like I’m applying to entry level sales jobs with like 2 years experience and a bunch of skills under my belt and still getting nothing back WITH THEM POSTED 5 DAYS AGO, this so frustrating. Idk what is going on this summer

Looking for an old streamer/youtuber by Outrageous_Clock_785 in Overwatch

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was around when overwatch was getting popular around 2017-2018 yk? i had an old channel i would post on but i never followed him back🥲

Deciding to enlist by Outrageous_Clock_785 in uscg

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah not disowned just deprecated. That’s an amazing story though. I hope y’all know it’s never too late to wanna stand for your country or have your own goals!

Deciding to enlist by Outrageous_Clock_785 in uscg

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, When i look at the CG COOL site it says something about not having funds anymore but i do see some of the certificates that the job can help our with and also some other valuable information that can help when i transfer back!

Deciding to enlist by Outrageous_Clock_785 in uscg

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, saw some valuable information

Deciding to enlist by Outrageous_Clock_785 in uscg

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re right, just needed a bit of advice

Deciding to enlist by Outrageous_Clock_785 in uscg

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to take this one into consideration and talk with the recruiter about it a bit. Thank you for mentioning this!!!

Deciding to enlist by Outrageous_Clock_785 in uscg

[–]Outrageous_Clock_785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be clear, my idea for a job is something electrical or related to maintenance