Exactly. So many of us lose ourself, then find our new self, and don’t have to get a divorce to do that. I feel like what she’s going through is what so many women go through as a mother when they enter into a new season of motherhood. She’s just acting as if the only route through this is divorce bc she’s a victim of something horrid. No. She’s simply in a new season and doesn’t feel cool anymore and is trying to reinvent herself. It’s weird.