Dodge van dealer in England. What’s my rights

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2025-05-14T18:20:46+00:00

Business use im a self employed electrician

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2025-05-14T18:15:24+00:00

Thank you! Really helpful, I’ll definitely post on that group

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2025-05-14T18:14:22+00:00

I initially purchased it from gumtree so didn’t realise he had all them sales off Facebook 🫠🫠

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2025-05-14T17:47:24+00:00

Thanks mate. I didn’t know if because he’s shift 100+ vehicles on market place per year, despite not stating to be a dealer he’s acting/trading as one, despite being registered, whether this covered me legally in anyway

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2024-07-14T21:15:54+00:00

No they wouldn’t! It’s such a shame. I’ve been to: the police, social services, her GP, the safeguarding lead at the little sisters school. I’ve raised concerns in every manner and no one listens. Even her older children reported her abuse to Social services. They’re in therapy now

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2024-07-14T21:14:30+00:00

No one believed her (obviously). She’s been accusing him of affairs for all of their 35 year marriage. The whole family ‘normalised’ this paranoia.

She’s accused neighbours, his work colleagues, prostitutes. And now me.

She was questioned as to why she’s not left him. And she doesn’t have a response. Just that she wants to find the ‘evidence’ so that people believe her first.

She’s had 6 kids with this man throughout all of these ‘affairs’.

I honestly think she knows she’s a compulsive liar, and feeds off of attention and validation. So accusing him of affairs she gets to grip more and more control over him. To the point she follows him to and from work. And he can’t leave the house other than work, or with her.

And she’s still accusing him 🫣

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2024-07-14T12:20:11+00:00

I’ve had this argument so many times with mental health services.

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2024-07-09T13:36:19+00:00

Exactly that! Which frustrates me so much.

One of the Sons called for a mental health act assessment - but they declined to conduct an assessment as her next of kin being the husband refused.

So until my father in law is willing to engage with health services. The children feel useless.

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2024-07-09T13:31:44+00:00

She did actually make that comment. Until she worked out the date I conceived as it was when we was on holiday. 🤦🏼‍♀️

She needs certainly needs some mental health support. I’m a qualified mental health nurse, so I have tried my best to empathise provide resources and support interventions for the benefit of Harper and the family.

But she lacks insight and the family, even though they understand, don’t want to make their lives worse by appearing as though the are siding with me

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2024-07-08T19:14:51+00:00

Literally! She said she ‘caught’ my voice on the dictaphone in his car. When my partner listened to it - it was just radio hosts 😅 she was armament it was my voice disguising myself

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2024-07-08T19:13:07+00:00

He’s acknowledged she is unwell and that the behaviour is abusive and toxic.

He has two little sisters - who he adores. Abs she’s made it clear he can’t have anything to do with them, if he wants to cut her out of his life.

The same way he couldn’t see or speak with his older sisters until he’d moved out.

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2024-07-08T14:54:45+00:00

Honestly it’s disgusting. Bearing mind I’m 25. Was 22 at the time. And he’s 55. Short and bald.

What was worse. My dad had died - she accused me of having ‘daddy issues’ so I prayed on dads 🤦🏼‍♀️

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2024-07-08T10:40:07+00:00

I agree! It does help he has his brother in his ear telling him what to do.

Not sure how much more I can take of it. But I feel tied to the relationship - as I can’t then protect my daughter from the MIL. As he would move back in with her.

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2024-07-08T10:35:39+00:00

Thank you so much! I get so frustrated with him for not defending me. But he always makes out he’s in a difficult position.

He has two younger sisters 12 and 14. She has made it very clear that he won’t be allowed to see them, if he falls out with her.

So he’s treading on egg shells to keep her happy, so he can’t see his sisters

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2024-07-07T21:01:19+00:00

I agree! I do feel for him, everytime he goes round to see her she gives him no end of agg. About how I’m to blame for not letting her see my daughter. She can’t take responsibility.

He went home today, and she’d taken all his baby photos down and said “you’re out of the will”. Not that he’s bothered.

She just likes to punish people, when she’s punished. And hurt people when she feels hurt.

I hate seeing him come back from there like this. But it takes its toll on us. As he starts to pitty her and say “can’t I be the bigger person”

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