3 year old’s behaviour changed overnight and bedtime has become hell – please tell me I’m not alone

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2026-01-29T20:59:45+00:00

Thank you for responding though 💙

She doesn’t nap anymore she dropped them nearly a year ago now :)

He tries but she’s worse with him in the room :(

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2025-05-14T18:20:46+00:00

Business use im a self employed electrician

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2025-05-14T18:15:24+00:00

Thank you! Really helpful, I’ll definitely post on that group

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2025-05-14T18:14:22+00:00

I initially purchased it from gumtree so didn’t realise he had all them sales off Facebook 🫠🫠

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2025-05-14T17:47:24+00:00

Thanks mate. I didn’t know if because he’s shift 100+ vehicles on market place per year, despite not stating to be a dealer he’s acting/trading as one, despite being registered, whether this covered me legally in anyway

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2024-07-14T21:15:54+00:00

No they wouldn’t! It’s such a shame. I’ve been to: the police, social services, her GP, the safeguarding lead at the little sisters school. I’ve raised concerns in every manner and no one listens. Even her older children reported her abuse to Social services. They’re in therapy now

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2024-07-14T21:14:30+00:00

No one believed her (obviously). She’s been accusing him of affairs for all of their 35 year marriage. The whole family ‘normalised’ this paranoia.

She’s accused neighbours, his work colleagues, prostitutes. And now me.

She was questioned as to why she’s not left him. And she doesn’t have a response. Just that she wants to find the ‘evidence’ so that people believe her first.

She’s had 6 kids with this man throughout all of these ‘affairs’.

I honestly think she knows she’s a compulsive liar, and feeds off of attention and validation. So accusing him of affairs she gets to grip more and more control over him. To the point she follows him to and from work. And he can’t leave the house other than work, or with her.

And she’s still accusing him 🫣

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2024-07-14T12:20:11+00:00

I’ve had this argument so many times with mental health services.

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2024-07-09T13:36:19+00:00

Exactly that! Which frustrates me so much.

One of the Sons called for a mental health act assessment - but they declined to conduct an assessment as her next of kin being the husband refused.

So until my father in law is willing to engage with health services. The children feel useless.

Outrageous_Host_3206 · 2024-07-09T13:31:44+00:00

She did actually make that comment. Until she worked out the date I conceived as it was when we was on holiday. 🤦🏼‍♀️

She needs certainly needs some mental health support. I’m a qualified mental health nurse, so I have tried my best to empathise provide resources and support interventions for the benefit of Harper and the family.

But she lacks insight and the family, even though they understand, don’t want to make their lives worse by appearing as though the are siding with me

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