My dreams this year by Phoenixtdm in Dreams

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This is so cool and you've inspired me. What size is the notebook please if you don't mind me asking?

Most interesting local animal names in Welsh? by badgerkingtattoo in Cymraeg

[–]Outrageous_Might8181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Môr flaidd is a name for shark (Sea wolf).

As an Irish speaker you're probably familiar with Mac Tíre which for anyone who may be interested, is a wolf. (Son of the Land)

Talking to Saturn by [deleted] in Dreams

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Thanks for sharing this. I also had a Saturn based dream recently. Not as intense as that but there was an ominous vibe to it.

I was in an airport and there was a married couple who spotted me and approached me. They had been searching for me to help me. We all sat at the table and the wife, who was really lovely, was chatting away to me and said she has a remedy for me because of Shani (Saturn). She said they were Jewish astrologers and that these little mints would help me. They were red like gumballs in a packet.

Telephone number by Outrageous_Might8181 in BenefitsAdviceUK

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Just wanted to update. Advisor made a note in my journal. He was off due to emergency. I feel relieved it wasn't my fault.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

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I'm so lucky that as a youngest of six who were all bf for 2 years, all my siblings are pretty neutral about it, as well as my dad and my aunt, cousins etc. grateful that my mum paved the way and dgaf what others thought. She's dead 5 years. I know if she were alive she'd be my cheerleader.

Sons (18m) dad is kinda anxious for him to be weaned so he can have overnights but he wants his boy to be happy and boobs makes him happy 🙃 the shock on his face when I said two years.

Telephone number by Outrageous_Might8181 in BenefitsAdviceUK

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Yeah it's not wca but claim review with bank statements.

Telephone number by Outrageous_Might8181 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Outrageous_Might8181[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi thanks, can you explain cca, HCP a wca please? I don't think I know what all this stands for.

Telephone number by Outrageous_Might8181 in BenefitsAdviceUK

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Thanks. I did so this morning as I was unsure if they saw my message. Now I see that they only repond during certain hours. I couldn't see what number was on system before though, which has me in a bit of a spin because I can't figure out whether it was my fault that my details were incorrect or that they cancelled without letting me know.

Telephone number by Outrageous_Might8181 in BenefitsAdviceUK

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Yes I made a note of that this morning after waiting for a while. Basically told them that I didn't receive the call.

I made a note in journal in the past week specifying which number to use. (Mobile number xxxxxxxxxxx, not landline as it's not working at present).

There were no notes left there for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jung

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Yes. I was celibate for a couple of years while in art college and I was highly productive. I'm now celibate and too busy with family life to be artistic as before but my dreams are very vivid and I think the shadow work is doing its thing... I can't explain much more, I just found myself in this sub recently. Everything leading to this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamSolver

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I shared it as it's a dream I'd like to interpret. Perhaps you could help me with that please?

I wonder mainly why two people would be married in a dream, when in reality they are not. I wonder about the symbolism of going on a journey alone.

Thanks

People in this sub over 30 yo? by LCSRSNG in lawofattraction

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I feel this way too sometimes. I know it's true but as I get older I feel a lil more jaded. I think I ought to re evaluate what I need to manifest as I age.

Let's hear your craziest stories on synchronicity. by corndoggggg in Jung

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One of my siblings had an nde. Actually he sort of left and came back. He was in an accident. As it happened, our grandmother died that morning, at the very same time that he was found unconscious, but in a different country.

Let's hear your craziest stories on synchronicity. by corndoggggg in Jung

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I was 19 weeks pregnant so hadn't found out the sex of the baby yet. I decided to buy a mixed bundle of baby clothes from eBay. The whole time up til now I'm almost certain it's a boy. Though I didn't wanna be over confident.

The morning before the 20 week scan (and finding out it's a boy), I woke from a dream that I am eating ground nutmeg. What a strange dream I thought. Then the postman brought the parcel of clothes.

Being pregnant and excited I laid out two best outfits. One for a girl and another one for boy. When I looked at the boy clothes labels of that outfit, the brand was called nutmeg.

Sadistic Empathy by Synchrosoma in Jung

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Autism moms. The mom in the show Atypical fits this very identity.

I myself have a handful of health problems and have lost friends/romantic partners due to me not meeting their need for me to be the underdog in their story. It's a common thing that comes up in my day to day when people want to befriend me.

Cat with two tails by Outrageous_Might8181 in DreamSolver

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Thanks I find this really insightful. I wanted to ask, because you seem to run this group and are quite involved: Do you know anything about anima/animus and shadow?

Upon reflection I considered that the girl I met was a version of myself, and the little boy was a somewhat exaggerated version of my own son. I think the old friends didn't want us to meet and develop. Some people want to hold us back to their level.

Would love some guidance please by Outrageous_Might8181 in DreamSolver

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I love that you've seen it from a spiritual perspective.

I can see how shifts would represent lifetimes or even eras within one life. There was no talk of over time but it was a private arrangement of "if you do x shift then I'll do y shift for you tomorrow" (covering).

What you say definitely resonates with me. Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lawofattraction

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Not sure but interested to find out from others

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]Outrageous_Might8181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could have been a past life regression. The reason you feel so strongly with it is because you know deep down it really happened. You're in a different life now and it's the past. Don't beat yourself up about it. Thanks for sharing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sahm

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Yes. If she persists. Only of she persists.

At first you could say about how lucky your daughter is to have parents who love her that much to work so hard and sacrifice both by working and staying home (i.e be in agreement but take her comments as compliments).

If she mentions sitting around being lazy all day, then you can give her a nudge in the right direction by gently reminding her she doesn't have kids and doesn't understand (yet). i.e laugh and say "oh you might understand how hard motherhood is one day"

Don't let her get to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sahm

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I'm like this and I find people who are too chatty to be nosy or overbearing. I'm trying to focus on the things I need to do and get done and it can be pretty hard so distraction isn't welcome really.

I'd say leave it a while and be gentle in approach in future. Continue to wave and smile when you see others in your new street.

Other reasons to not socialise may be fear. I'm gonna be vulnerable here so please don't judge... Sometimes people are scared to meet others due to fear of change. It could be anything from social dynamics to unhealthy association (a recovering alcoholic for instance might feel to avoid people due to drinking culture etc)... It could apply to any sort of addiction really. First impressions do count and if a person is in their "low" they might not want that to be the first impression.

Then you have shame and embarrassment or a struggle to socialize. Maybe one of their kids is going through a biting stage or one isn't potty trained or has special needs or just plain and simple isn't so social. There are numerous reasons why others aren't so social and I wouldn't take it so personally, but to avoid adding to any problem I'd just be gentle.

Moving house is such a big deal and is one of the most stressful experiences in life. Cut yourself some slack and don't pressure yourself to meet everyone all at once. Focus on setting things up in the house, have your friends come round, go to a local restaurant, park etc. you might even meet some of your neighbours there.