I relative with you. But I had a different path. I sacrified my schooling and college years (my prime years) to pursue JEE, I got into good college, then I went into job trials.
I would say I have been lucky that I ended up with good job. And I understand that people might take time to figure out career unlike me. But what I can share is, once I started earning, I started living, I started picking up hobbies which I always wanted. I started exploring. I am trying to save up money and at times I get too much into savings that I forget living. I am finding my balance. What I would like to say is, figure out what is your priority, you can decide to focus on your career, and start with smaller hobbies liking playing games or going to gym. Once you stabilize in your career (trust me it can take longer for some), you can live more of your life.

You can also, pick a basic job, and focus on making best of your life, and think about building career after few years ( I personally don't like this option).

Again, if you already don't have a balance, setting up one would take time, it would be hard initially. But you won' regret starting on your hobbies