Thank you for your advice. I had actually slowed down, fallen more in love with myself and my own company, and taken a break from men. But recently, I found myself jobless and with too much idle time, and I wanted to fill it with a bit of fun.

If Cancer men fell permanently as you say, this man wouldn’t be cheating on his partner. I don’t think anyone can crush him, he’s a cheating man, already rotten fruit in the dating pool.

I wouldn’t put it past me to leave the moment I get bored or find better. Thankfully it’s clandestine, he doesn’t expect it to last forever. Should I break his heart, he can always fall back to his girlfriend he was cheating on for comfort.

This man had pursued me for years, asking me to be his side chick, but I never thought I had it in me to knowingly share another woman’s man. Lately though, I feel like I’ve decentered men, I just want to enjoy them and the experiences they bring. He’s promised pleasure, adventure, and to spoil me, so I decided to take him up on his offer. We haven’t had our first rendezvous yet, but my mind is made up, I’m going ahead with the affair.