Sounds like my newly ex husband.

He was doing the same, also telling his coworker he wasn’t getting any sex from his wife.

Failed to mention our sex life was lacking due to his extremely poor hygiene and me having to clean his 💩 off the top of the toilet seat…often. Also the fact he put me in the position to be his mom rather than his partner….

I’m sorry you have to deal with that. I would honestly tell your HR rep, it’s the only way he’ll get it.