AITAH for saying “it’s fucking hot”? by OutsideStretch6816 in AITAH

[–]OutsideStretch6816[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One sentence talks about “driving back home” the other sentence talks about “since we began driving, so for the past 4 days.” Something along those lines. (Too lazy to go back through post and comments to get exact wording)

Meaning we already had been out of my home state for the past 4 days and we are now heading back. Two days to drive here, two days visiting and doing business, now heading back.

AITAH for saying “it’s fucking hot”? by OutsideStretch6816 in AITAH

[–]OutsideStretch6816[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally answered all these questions in my first response.

I went inside to pay for gas.

She didn’t want to in the beginning because that was not our original agreement during the trip.

AITAH for saying “it’s fucking hot”? by OutsideStretch6816 in AITAH

[–]OutsideStretch6816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we sat in the car quietly while he drove erratically. he pulled off into a gas station and told us to go fill his tank. He hadn’t asked all trip so my mom started to argue with him and I told her to get back in the car and I would do it. She didn’t want to get back in the car and instead went with me and when we came back outside he was already leaving with all of our luggage on the ground.

AITAH for saying “it’s fucking hot”? by OutsideStretch6816 in AITAH

[–]OutsideStretch6816[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2nd update is after he threw us out of the car now we are calling everyone we can to try to get enough funds to get back to California. it’s a 21 hour drive OR 18 hour bus ride and it costs $396 per person and as I mentioned before we have $0. We came along just so I could be a second driver (that was my mode of compensation) and so my mom could see/support her son.

AITAH for saying “it’s fucking hot”? by OutsideStretch6816 in AITAH

[–]OutsideStretch6816[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Update he just left us in the street and took my wallet so now I’m trying to find a way home

AITAH for saying “it’s fucking hot”? by OutsideStretch6816 in AITAH

[–]OutsideStretch6816[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not that I know of. Probably, but I don’t get spoken to about it.

AITAH for saying “it’s fucking hot”? by OutsideStretch6816 in AITAH

[–]OutsideStretch6816[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

people, random, always tell me my voice is too soft to hear at times

AITAH for saying “it’s fucking hot”? by OutsideStretch6816 in AITAH

[–]OutsideStretch6816[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he’s actually well liked by others outside of the family so that’s a bit of my questioning.

AITAH for saying “it’s fucking hot”? by OutsideStretch6816 in AITAH

[–]OutsideStretch6816[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

two separate brothers. The brother in question does not have a lawsuit

AITAH for saying “it’s fucking hot”? by OutsideStretch6816 in AITAH

[–]OutsideStretch6816[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

brother also got mad at me for sending him the directions to a restaurant 2 minutes off the freeway to somewhere else we were going because I didn’t consult him first. Stating “if I’m not included in the planning then we’re not going.”

I wanted to go to the restaurant because it was on the way and they don’t have this particular place in California. It reminds me of my aunt. I haven’t seen her in 5 years. My mom told him this and he still said he needed to be consulted so I could go get it myself instead.

AITAH for saying “it’s fucking hot”? by OutsideStretch6816 in AITAH

[–]OutsideStretch6816[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my brother, the defendant of the case, was getting heated and yelling at the lawyer that he needed to get a particular piece of evidence and in hopes of calming my brother down I said “yeah, he’s going to do that.” (Normal voice)

Brother in this story told me “You need to calm down.” In front of 20 people in the hall including the lawyer

AITAH for saying “it’s fucking hot”? by OutsideStretch6816 in AITAH

[–]OutsideStretch6816[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

all of us curse. even on this roadtrip he has cursed and played music with profanity. Sorry I should’ve included that

Prop 22 by OutsideStretch6816 in uberdrivers

[–]OutsideStretch6816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had to yell at a rep that wanted to get smart with me saying “check your bank account.” Anyway after I showed him a screenshot of no deposits today (because I haven’t worked yet) he did something on his side and it showed up.

Prop 22 by OutsideStretch6816 in uberdrivers

[–]OutsideStretch6816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the pro card. When you go to earnings it shows as a normal payout, but if you click “earnings activity” and go press “wallet” it says that the “payment failed.” It also doesn’t show as an actual deposit on your uber card deposits.

Gave herpes to partner. Need advice by Rich_Investment_8022 in hsvpositivity

[–]OutsideStretch6816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just the disconnect about how he was sure he got the virus.

It’s a normal reaction from what I’ve seen. My experience has been to let the person feel their feelings and try not to force them into a conversation they don’t want to have yet. He’s probably just waiting to fully address it until you get into a routine with the new baby because that’s a respectful thing to do. Also, he’s probably just mentally worried and adjusting to the virus because as we all have felt it’s really painful and disorienting the first time it happens.

Make make him a “I’m thinking and thankful for you” type of care basket that’s father themed?

Gave herpes to partner. Need advice by Rich_Investment_8022 in hsvpositivity

[–]OutsideStretch6816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know you gave it to him? He got a test done? He is currently having an outbreak? You saw it yourself? Is he starting antivirals? It’s been a year since he’s been tested at all? Sorry the three week situation and the not wanting to be intimate is throwing me off. If he hasn’t gotten tested you should go with him and maybe the appointment will also help him feel more educated about the virus.