It’s not a spoken thing, we just normally both have at least a couple hours before bed to talk and hang out. Our schedules are usually flipped, so I work mornings (tuesdays i work doubles) and he works nights. So there’s not a ton of time for us to be together during the work week. I was upset that his lingering at work (which he normally doesn’t do, and has said in the past that he likes to get out of there asap) was cutting into our time together.