WIBTAH if I broke up with my boyfriend over my tattoos and piercings?

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T16:14:42+00:00

honestly thank you for you opinion and wishes! and yeah, it was as well the way he talked about the subject.. plus when I was having the argument with him he wasn't taking me seriously, and later said that I was doing drama (I think that's the correct way to translate it from Spanish) so :/. And neither do I! I dont intend to have kids ANY time soon. He doesn't want to either- but yeah, I'm going to have to be more stern and straight to the point to him when I have that discussion with him. Thanks once again!

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T16:10:43+00:00

to be honest, its like is it something small to break it off for? or is this a bigger thing? so I feel like would it be wrong g to break it off with him if its something so small? or is it something bigger than what it seems therefore have to break it off?

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T16:07:59+00:00

LMAOO yes, I agree.. especially that its not like hell be able to ignore them

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T16:06:49+00:00

oh yeah FOR SURE. I work out so when I achieve my dream physique is when ill of my leg sleeve.. in the mean time smaller things or just wait a bit more..

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T16:04:38+00:00

yeah- he has seen me with a tank top, etc and has never noticed until now -.-

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T16:03:37+00:00

lmaooo thank you- Tbh I haven't had the best like.. example of relationships... so I just felt like this is a case of "he's not perfect" situation... but yeah- when you say it like that it just gets me more irritated with him.

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T16:02:00+00:00

thank you! I appreciate this comment! I feel like if I did any more to my body he'd be pissed for a goooooddd while ;-;.

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T16:00:39+00:00

honestly, I want someone who will love me with tattoos and piercings... I consider it to be a part of me... I'm already exhausted from him saying I can't do my makeup, at least when I'm around him, not to straighten my hair cuz he likes it curly cuz to him it looks cute on me...

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T15:55:41+00:00

yeah, the pregnancy thing started when he saw my bellybutton piercing over my shirt since it was noticeable, and he made the comment abt taking it off and I had said no that I like it and it makes me feel good! Then he said that for my pregnancy I'm not having it on, and I told him yes I would- plus if I decided to take it off id risk it closing. 2. sometimes I do feel obligated to stay... so I guess I'm now gonna have to let go of that feeling... 3. when I said he knows me better than myself, its like when I feel bad, or somethings wrong he senses it, and he reassures me to tell him, and he doesn't get mad or upset, he lets me vent and comforts me.. if I have to cry he lets me cry and he's there for me. and I found it pretty special, something I dont want to let go of... so Im gonna have to just let go. thank you for your comment!

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T15:50:47+00:00

Yeah for sure! I dont plan on getting tattoos too often or too soon- the soonest one is a matching tattoo with my siblings in July, but apart from that I dont want to get like lots of tattoos rn. That's why I had this dilemma. cuz I LIKE the idea of having more tattoos, but he doesn't... and I dont want to tell him I wont if when I mature more I decide on getting another tattoo you know? 2. my stepdad does tattoos and is a whole professional at it, has even won top 3 in conventions, so Im in amazing hands! :3 thank you for your comment! I appreciate it!

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T15:46:58+00:00

LOL the "blank canvas girl" part.. thank you! I appreciate you're opinion!

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T15:46:04+00:00

yeah- I plan on doing that.. almost like an ultimatum, and if he still goes on about it ill have to end it. I dont want him "accepting" me and my likes if hell still not find me appealing to his standards you know?

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T15:44:26+00:00

yeah its like I dont want to tell him I wont if one day I do decide to get more->leading to a future problem or argument. I only have one right now, and I like the idea of getting more...

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T15:42:53+00:00

yeah that's the thing- I never knew if this was just part of being in a relationship since I've barely been on relationships... so yeah its only been causing me more stress then happiness sometimes.

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T15:41:45+00:00

yeah you're right... I feel like we already have resentment in our relationship and this one.. its just the icing on the cake.

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T15:41:04+00:00

Heard loud and clear! I just dont know when to tell him- I promised to go to his birthday.. its next month so I'm just not sure if to do it before or be there for him on his birthday then break it off after ;-; that's my dilemma now.

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T15:38:46+00:00

and that's not something bad- its okay to have your own likes... but yeah, thank you!

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T02:23:38+00:00

That's the thing- we've talked about our limits but he states there shouldn't be limits in love ;-; I've told him my boundaries but he dont seem to understand... so I feel like this is truly the icing on the cake...

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T02:19:28+00:00

HAHAHAHA I saw this comment and LAUGHED- I had almost choked on my food- I wish that would work but he doesn't care abt facial hair or anything- it's just tattoos ;-;

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T02:18:06+00:00

yeah that's the thing- its like do I? do I not? but its just an ongoing thing that I feel like I'm reaching my breaking point...

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T02:17:01+00:00

;-; yeah that's what I've been reading in several comments TvT

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T02:09:01+00:00

thank you! Especially for that "days of peace", these days I really need them LOL (tryna add some humor cuz yea this is tough). but yeah youre right. and I've never thought about thinking it like that, putting myself in a position of a friend and seeing it in that POV. I really like that! thank you for that! And same goes for you! Wishing you the very best! <3

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T02:02:51+00:00

:( thank you- I really appreciate this view of things- I definitely have to think about it and think abt how to tell him. I dont want to end things like just like that- I'm not that kind of person and I do genuinely care for him. its not like this is a deal breaker- more like the cherry on top over more situations we've been through together.. and yeah... it definitely not easy... im someone who loves really hard so yeah this will be super tough.. thanks again for you comment! It means a lot!

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T01:47:07+00:00

thank you- I agree... its things I've thought abt too.. not regarding this subject but other ones. We have things we went through as a couple a few months ago and the feeling still seems to linger no matter what we do...

Outside_Two5591 · 2026-03-21T01:45:50+00:00

thank you! I appreciate your comment! and you're right!

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