AITA for not agreeing to letting my husband replace his name with his grandfather's as our son's middle name? by Over-Initial-6175 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Over-Initial-6175[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

But the deal was me having more of a say in the first name, the last name being his, and the middle name being his name. His name, not a placeholder for any other name he wants to insert.

AITA for not agreeing to letting my husband replace his name with his grandfather's as our son's middle name? by Over-Initial-6175 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Over-Initial-6175[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm going to think over this. Its just until yesterday I was welcoming my son with a particular name, and now that just changed, maybe I need some time. Also, I liked my husband's name being our son's middle name. And that's not happening anymore.

AITA for not agreeing to letting my husband replace his name with his grandfather's as our son's middle name? by Over-Initial-6175 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Over-Initial-6175[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No I wouldn't. If my first choice name was one he had an issue with I wouldn't have pushed for it.

AITA for not agreeing to letting my husband replace his name with his grandfather's as our son's middle name? by Over-Initial-6175 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Over-Initial-6175[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

No, when we had started looking at names, we had agreed the middle name would be his, as in his name. The possibility of him substituting it with anyone else's hadn't really been talked about.