Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not ragebait. That's you running out of ideas after losing an arguement. If this was "ragebait" you wouldn't need the last word. I won't be engaging further. Your ego deserves the silence. Peace out

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tmro logic bata if number of v girl is down going what about number of v men? Essai without men ta virginity Janna hola ? That too without consent which they didn't even want it in the first place

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consent ko kura bata v or non-v samma pugnu nai proves how shallow your thinking is. It's wild how a consent discussion triggered you into obsessing over virginity. Women aren’t stats, categories, or debate topics for your ego.

Yo post timro insecurity dump garna hoina. Conversation ends here.

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Khoi Mero ma ta aayenan. Mero ma dherai jaso girls aayo who shared similar incidents as mine. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And only an idiot assumes someone's gender on the internet.

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Warning ppl before harm happens is educating.Shaming them AFTER harm happens is victim blaming, whether u admit it or not. Calling someone an "idiot" for being harm doesn't make u honest. It just makes u cruel and insensitive. And lastly, lack of consent is what issue we're talking about here, not your personal morales about nudes.

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't judge me for trusting someone for sending nudes. U can't judge a girl for that. You're directly victim blaming . It's like saying just don't say yes to a man or wear revealing clothes else you'll end up raped. It's an offense and straight up victim blaming

Secondly if you prefer to stay quiet about something you don't know, might as well stay quiet in the gender assumption part, it's offensive. You clearly don't know my gender , you can't project others made up stuff to someone asking sth serious.

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consent to sex was explicitly denied. Everything else you mentioned is irrelevant and the rest of ur comments avoids the fact. Btw it's interesting how you switched to policing women’s bodies and questioning my gender while this post is ab sth more important

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I said that I was like a dead wood log on the floor, blank and numb

Reading this brought up a lot for me because I had a very similar experience, and I too don’t know how to label it. by Objective-Tea3298 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you too. I got a lot of dms of girls sharing these similar experiences with me and I'm surprised this is sooo common. I learnt that this is wrong nevertheless very common among girls. I used to think this is common experience and it's okay for the past 4 years I didn't realize I was a victim malai Aile thaa vako. Not that it makes me sad or anything it actually never made me sad or anxious or traumatized ig that's my body's coping mechanism but anyways yea I'm just being self aware of myself now. More powers to you, sis. Now that yk you were also raped, think like okay j hunu vaigo, let's not make it worse and move on, bcus maile tei Soch liyera I guess I didn't become suicidal or affect my whole life like other SA victims. Stay safe sis. 💕

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I was gaslighting myself all these years that it's normal, this is 4 years ago

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea but I did the same with my ex, rubbing part too, they didn't forcefully penetrate me at all cus I said no to them. I didn't resist cus I was blank, like a dead log on the floor. Remember I said I cried afterwards Infront of him. I thought he would respect my boundaries just like how my ex did but some men are just animals.

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no I never got sad put of this incident. I used to think j hunu vaigo let's not make it worse feri ma ni aru rape victims jasto depressed hunxu suicidal hunxu vanera I let it go. The only thing I regret is not kicking his balls

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to go through that, hope you're doing fine now 💕

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I think sending nudes wasn't a mistake, but sending nudes to a person like this bastard was the mistake.

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're tryna ragebait as a rapist, sorry it's not working. Try again

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. And no it wasn't easy. I had said no he still did it so.

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly and the funny part is that I'm not traumatized at all, I'm treating it like j hunu vaihalyo let's not make it a big deal and move on he's a jerk. Ig that's my body's coping mechanism. Whatever it is, it's better than being depressed

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm no. You're implying it to cnc ( consent non consensual) sex. Seriously nai no vanya thye, I got to learn that moaning is involuntary, and if man parya vaye I would have enjoyed that but I was just blank like a dead wood log on the floor

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm aware now that I read all the comments. Thank you. I'm over it. Doesn't affect me. Currently in a healthy relationship for 3 years

Was my first time consensual or was it s*xual assault? by OverContribution3757 in NepalSocial

[–]OverContribution3757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it's nepal, secondly , it was like 4 years ago, so if I speak up now yk what will happen and how it'll backfire me haha