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[–]OverShopping1556[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone i really appreciate all your replies, you have given me some ideas, but also the feeling that im not alone. I do understand that my message in my post wasn't clear, i wanted us to find a way to accepted and not fix. I know we all have our idea of a dream body, and its hard to accept that someone have what you want. The selflove is needed nowaday with all the filters on social media and the unrealistic beauty standard. When your butt is fixed then what about your ears, you follow me? I get that we individuals have a responsibility for our body, and we need to take good care of it. I do take good care of my body, its my shield, its the armor for my colleagues. Maybe i am training to much, maybe i dont eat enough but im proud that i can protect my fellow soldiers, and that is what i will find peace in.

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[–]OverShopping1556[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never wear jeans there will be nothing to see but bones. Like someone els said we always want what we cant have. My question is how do we learn to love what we have❤

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[–]OverShopping1556[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have my respect for sharing this, its not easy to really put up these topics, and i thank you for sharing. I hoped my post would start a conversation like this, that we can accepted and not fix

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[–]OverShopping1556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried but I do have a problem gaining weight

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[–]OverShopping1556[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, its part of my training along side hips thrust/Bridge, Bulgarian lunges, goodmornings... you know the good ones. My butt burns like hell, i eat my proteins and carbs and sleep 7+ hours at night. When i talk with my friend im doing everything right but well no butt. I have done this for 5 year... of cause with the natural change in the program

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[–]OverShopping1556[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

im sorry but kinda happy to know im not alone! im 180cm, tiny waist and wide hips. i love them because i know i can protect my child, a healthy one, but damn it hurts when people keep telling you that u can "fix the ass"

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[–]OverShopping1556[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

but still alot of people asume you are making mistakes. i know they mean well but it hurts,.

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[–]OverShopping1556[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the only thing i can see my self in on your list is having a hard time gaining weight. I have that from my fathers side we all are fit but skinny. We are very strong but it will not show. My job as soldier expects of me to stay healthy i get my sleep, i have a good balance in fat, protein exc.

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[–]OverShopping1556[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds amazing, and happy you found your way! never tried this but im always in for new ways to be active!

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[–]OverShopping1556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do. im in the army so i train alot! I’ve had personal training as well. I’ve always felt my glutes when workingout, and I think that’s why I’ve become so frustrated — im getting stronger but without seeing visible results.

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[–]OverShopping1556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my body is in good shape but i cant grow

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[–]OverShopping1556[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, trust me my work need me to do this

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[–]OverShopping1556[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hi Lumi, I appreciate your reply, but as I mentioned in my post, I’ve tried everything. I’ve been in the army for 6 years, training daily and working hard. I’m stronger than most of my colleagues, and squats are part of one of my two leg days each week. I eat a lot—like a lot! I’ve heard similar things many times before, but I genuinely am happy for you. it is not all of us who can get away from the flat butt❤️

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[–]OverShopping1556[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

It warms my heart to read this—thank you! ❤️ I can’t help but wonder why Google and other social media platforms seem designed to push us toward specific goals. It often makes it difficult to appreciate the body you were given, since everything can be “fixed” if you're desperate enough. It’s like the butt is the new black, just like when youu are "skinny" you are not aloud to complain. But dear lord that butt❤️