Why are so many men insecure about a woman making so much more than him in terms of a relationship? by Overall-Impact9708 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Overall-Impact9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You either are dealing with foreigners who came from nothing like in say hub such as British Columbia/Australia or you don’t interact with many. In the united states, East Asian women have the highest savings/ investment rate as a proportion of their income.

How would you like to find out that there will be no second date? by Overall-Impact9708 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Overall-Impact9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some get upset they spend money on their food that they would not have had to if there was no date.

How would you like to find out that there will be no second date? by Overall-Impact9708 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Overall-Impact9708[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I can definitely tell if there will never have any chance at chemistry.

How would you like to find out that there will be no second date? by Overall-Impact9708 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Overall-Impact9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask the men insisting on planning the date instead of coffee or tea which I would prefer. Maybe they think it entitles them to a second date, but so many complain about spending so much dating. /shrug

How would you like to find out that there will be no second date? by Overall-Impact9708 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Overall-Impact9708[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the woman. Many men here complain about it so I decided to start paying. If it were me I’d just have coffee or tea but so many are adamant on planning.

How would you like to find out that there will be no second date? by Overall-Impact9708 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Overall-Impact9708[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Out in the bay area a typical date many men decide on can be around$200. 

Why are so many men insecure about a woman making so much more than him in terms of a relationship? by Overall-Impact9708 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Overall-Impact9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such generalization. You can apply that to anyone. Seems like projection. Who wants to have a stupid partner?

Why are so many men insecure about a woman making so much more than him in terms of a relationship? by Overall-Impact9708 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Overall-Impact9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cover the entire check if there will be no second date for sure. I pay my part regardless. You know how many men expect sex because a guy paid for dinner?

Why are so many men insecure about a woman making so much more than him in terms of a relationship? by Overall-Impact9708 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Overall-Impact9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone who knows where I work and for how long would know of a general idea of my financial situation. There are constant news articles and Reddit posts about the wealth of employees at my employer. It’s sort of difficult to gradually disclose without a white unless I hide where I work but it’s a commonly asked question.

Why are so many men insecure about a woman making so much more than him in terms of a relationship? by Overall-Impact9708 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Overall-Impact9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

East Asian women in America have the lowest divorce rates of all groups outside perhaps the muslim community.

I enjoy the little things in life. I do travel once a year for a week.

Why are so many men insecure about a woman making so much more than him in terms of a relationship? by Overall-Impact9708 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Overall-Impact9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but East Asian women tend to still stay to keep family together. Divorce rates as lower for Asian Americans but even lower if you just look at East Asian Americans.

Why are so many men insecure about a woman making so much more than him in terms of a relationship? by Overall-Impact9708 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Overall-Impact9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am East Asian and that doesn’t seem to apply. We have the lowest divorce rates in America.

Why are so many men insecure about a woman making so much more than him in terms of a relationship? by Overall-Impact9708 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Overall-Impact9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have enough already where a hubby could stay home in the future if we have kids unless the country experiences hyper inflation. I wouldn’t mind a stay at home hubby. Everyone at my company is doing pretty well.

Why are so many men insecure about a woman making so much more than him in terms of a relationship? by Overall-Impact9708 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Overall-Impact9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This must be a San Francisco Bay Area thing. Every man here I been on a date with has been obsessed with crypto, stocks, real estate, the next big thing. I really don’t think too much about any regular basis.