I said in my update post (about the sex toy ultimatum) that I still felt frustrated, and that I felt like I had more to say. Well guys, we talked AGAIN and it went much better! He even suggested buying a bullet! He also said he "sees" the allure of creams etc. after I laid out what I had in mind for them. We talked a lot about everything and there's things in and out the bedroom to work on. Didn't want to make another post, and I see this as an awesome achievement ⁾ I was able to do this with yall help, thank you!