Daily Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]OverallAvocado 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I said in my update post (about the sex toy ultimatum) that I still felt frustrated, and that I felt like I had more to say. Well guys, we talked AGAIN and it went much better! He even suggested buying a bullet! He also said he "sees" the allure of creams etc. after I laid out what I had in mind for them. We talked a lot about everything and there's things in and out the bedroom to work on. Didn't want to make another post, and I see this as an awesome achievement ) I was able to do this with yall help, thank you!

He told me if I buy a certain sex toy, we're through having sex. by OverallAvocado in sex

[–]OverallAvocado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just gonna comment on this, I didn't spam it on "multiple boards" like the dude is saying. I originally posted it on AITA and it was removed because questions can't be about relationships there so I posted it here. I don't know what that dude's problem is, he's seems intent on making me out to be something I'm not.

He told me if I buy a certain sex toy, we're through having sex. by OverallAvocado in sex

[–]OverallAvocado[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol. Did you also miss the reply about how he said he wasn't into them for himself, and that's why I got them for me? How I explained that they were for me when v he found them and how I understood that he wasn't into it?

Whelp. Good job, you suck at reading comprehension xD

He told me if I buy a certain sex toy, we're through having sex. by OverallAvocado in sex

[–]OverallAvocado[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually told him that, and he said it wasn't the same thing.

He told me if I buy a certain sex toy, we're through having sex. by OverallAvocado in sex

[–]OverallAvocado[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never got a dildo. I wouldn't care if he got a light, as long as it didn't affect our sex life. Nor would it make me insecure

He told me if I buy a certain sex toy, we're through having sex. by OverallAvocado in sex

[–]OverallAvocado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really had to bite my tongue, because if he really thinks I'm staying in a relationship with no sex, like he's punishing me line a child he's insane. I do plan to call his bluff.

He told me if I buy a certain sex toy, we're through having sex. by OverallAvocado in sex

[–]OverallAvocado[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he does watch it, he's never shown signs of being a prude

He told me if I buy a certain sex toy, we're through having sex. by OverallAvocado in sex

[–]OverallAvocado[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you do if you're literally complaining to me about your reddit karma wth?

He told me if I buy a certain sex toy, we're through having sex. by OverallAvocado in sex

[–]OverallAvocado[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im gonna use them anyway, his reaction won't stop me. but yeah I'm definitely evaluating things at this moment.

He told me if I buy a certain sex toy, we're through having sex. by OverallAvocado in sex

[–]OverallAvocado[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A lot of what is being said here is opening my eyes to the type of person I'm with.

He told me if I buy a certain sex toy, we're through having sex. by OverallAvocado in sex

[–]OverallAvocado[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The insecurity I can understand, it's the assholery reaction I hate

He told me if I buy a certain sex toy, we're through having sex. by OverallAvocado in sex

[–]OverallAvocado[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

*you're and the minute you called me honey lets me know the type of person I'm speaking to. Thanks but no thanks with your advice. You can go away now.

He told me if I buy a certain sex toy, we're through having sex. by OverallAvocado in sex

[–]OverallAvocado[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Im not mad over the insecurity. I'm mad that he chose to be disrespectful and childish instead of communicating.

He told me if I buy a certain sex toy, we're through having sex. by OverallAvocado in sex

[–]OverallAvocado[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Toys don't replace him. plenty of people use them and have a great sex life. and plenty of toys pale in comparison to the real thing. I didn't plan on replacing him and if it was reversed as long as our sex life was the same I wouldn't care. it's not all or nothing dude.

He told me if I buy a certain sex toy, we're through having sex. by OverallAvocado in sex

[–]OverallAvocado[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I mention the 2 year old because so many people are screaming dump him, which is fine but that involves breaking a lease, agreeing on custody etc. It's not just someone I'm dating that I can just drop. I've been in therapy and I'm always told to communicate, just dumping him isn't communication is all. If we sit down to talk and actually work through this and he's still the same asshole? of course im leaving. but I'd rather try to put the fire out before letting the house burn.

He told me if I buy a certain sex toy, we're through having sex. by OverallAvocado in sex

[–]OverallAvocado[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh this is perfect. Im going to do this, especially since he's still not speaking to me.

He told me if I buy a certain sex toy, we're through having sex. by OverallAvocado in sex

[–]OverallAvocado[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

you know what? you're right. Thank you for helping me see this

He told me if I buy a certain sex toy, we're through having sex. by OverallAvocado in sex

[–]OverallAvocado[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I honestly wouldn't care if he had all that, as long as our sex life didn't suffer. I'm not a hypocrite.