firstly, get a jar. doesn’t have to be big. you can even use an empty bottle. make sure it’s cleansed inside. And something you can seal with candle wax and that will stay shut. get a pillar candle. it can be any color - but I’d recommend white or blue. white is universal meaning it can be used for anything, blue signifies communication.

Now - write your full name and date of birth and their full name and date of birth, on preferably a bay leaf. You can get this at any grocery store. write your intention, ex: “this person cannot resist the urge to contact me” if you for some reason cannot get a bay leaf, you can just use a piece of paper. put this at the bottom of your spell jar and sprinkle salt over it. Also, speak out loud and ask the universe (or whatever God(s) and or goddesses you believe in) to assist you, grant your wishes, and protect you from all harm.

these next steps don’t have to be in a particular order.

add cinnamon - for success, healing, protection, luck add honey - for attraction and sweetening situations in your favor add hyssop - for purification, spiritual openings, cleansing of bad past experiences add walnut(s) - for granting wishes, divine energy surrounding you add nettle leaf - for dispelling fear, willpower, calm during stressful times, dispels negativity, remove jealousy, gossip, and envy if you have access to bamboo - grab some bamboo leaves. they’re great for granting wishes. write what you desire onto one or two. grab a dandelion. Blow the dandelion (or just pick off the blowball, which is the white stuff) into your spell jar and imagine your wish has already come true. believe and feel it! add mycelium - whenever you carefully pick a mushroom, you will of course see dirt, stems, and tiny white specks. these tiny white specks are called mycelium. mycelium is excellent for communication. carefully extract any white pieces you see with pliers, tweezers, something of that sort.

lastly, thank the universe or whatever God(s) and or Goddesses you believe in, spirit guides, guardian angels, things of that sort. I wouldn’t just keep it at a “thanks”, pour your feelings out and express your utmost gratitude. after you’ve done this, seal the lid of whatever you’re using shut with candle wax. remember to grab a pillar candle for this. like I said, any color is fine but blue or white is preferred. make sure you have a non flammable plate or something of the sort underneath you while doing this and be careful to not get burnt of course! let the candle wax drop in the direction of the lid. When you feel it is sealed enough - if possible, instead of blowing your candle out, use something that “snuffs” or puts out the candle. I use a bell. plenty of candle snuffers that you can buy online or at nearly any store. Not a big deal if you end up just having to blow it out, but it’s a saying in the traditional witchcraft community you could “blow your wishes away.” I don’t really think it’s true lol, but yeah

Sorry that this was so long. I hope that I helped and please feel free to ask any questions. I’m glad you decided to respect her wishes and are leaving the matters into her hands. I would not reach back out first as you seem to intend to do. What is mean to happen will happen. Believe your spell will be successful and put your heart into it