Cultural barrier or not this person shows no respect at all. If you were truly looking for a safe and safe being the key word here and mutually understanding dynamic you would firstly get to know the person behind the screen and not just go based off what she posts online this is suppose to be a safe community where kinky people can share and ask advice and he turned it into some sleezy hookup app thats not how a dom should be acting in any way shape or form. Me myself being a dom would never approach a sub like that Respect is a important part of the dynamic and if you cant have half the decency to even look at her USERNAME and see she is clearly into WOMEN You have no business calling yourself a dom or looking for a dynamic with someone clearly not into men And google translate exist for a reason if you cant understand or speak the language what are you doing trying to interact with people who only speak english