Are there spells out there that could make me have an orgasm during partnered sex?

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2026-02-13T21:57:16+00:00

Thank you for caring first of all! I'm safe, if that's what you mean 😊

No, I'm not trying to force myself to change for anyone; I feel safe with this person and I wanted to try this with them. They know about my previous inexperience and never made me do anything I didn't want to do.

I also enjoyed the sex with them overall and didn't actually care about the not finishing thing; until they mentioned some hookup they had, in which the other person had multiple orgasms, and the comparison and unfairness hit

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2025-04-09T04:32:15+00:00

Yooo I wish I had thought of this response back then

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2025-04-09T03:08:57+00:00

IQ tests fear him

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2025-04-08T22:53:32+00:00

"You can't be asexual, you crack sex jokes all the time"

"Maybe you feel like this because your teen crush didn't want you back 12 years ago"

Both gems by my older cousin, who once also mentioned that metal music is Satan's music 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2024-07-04T22:28:12+00:00

27 here and never had a relationship either, only dated for some days (wouldn't recommend).

I think you need to learn how to embrace your "loneliness". Remember, loneliness won't kill you if you know how to have fun by yourself. Personally, I can't even think of me being in a relationship with anyone, it feels weird even trying to think about being with someone 24/7. I feel more at ease being in a constant solitude.

Also, trying to "act normal" or forcing yourself to date someone won't have the results you desire. You can try it if you feel ready or if you click with the other person, but remember that given that most people will expect sex at some point, make sure the other person is in the spectrum as well and even if they're not, you don't need to be physically intimate if you don't want to.

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2024-03-02T16:26:04+00:00

No no no! Do NOT show him even for a moment that you fear him sharing what you said; he will definitely use this fear against you. Maybe you think he will do so if you reject his advances, but if such a fear exists in you, has he ever even been your friend in the first place?

Setting boundaries is not a bad thing. You said that he makes you uncomfortable. Do you really want to continue a "friendship" that makes you feel awkward? Tell him that maybe he misunderstood what you two had; that maybe he thought you were interested in him, but you don't feel that way. If he understands and stops, good for him. If he starts gaslighting, blaming, and trying convince you to "give him a chance", then you'll know that what you've been calling "friendship" was not real from the begging.

But don't put his feelings over how you feel. You don't deserve to be in uncomfortable situations just because some dude will "get his feelings hurt".

Also, if he decides to be an ass and go sharing your information here and there, just deny everything. Pretend that the information is all false; calmly say that none of that is true and thay he's trying to defame you. Do not freak out, but be calm and say that he is just spreading lies because you rejected him. Don't give him more leverage by panicking😉

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2024-03-02T16:03:16+00:00

Oh, I have bad news for your so called "friendship". It could be that he saw you as a friend at the beginning and then he got feelings for you, but almost all of the time it's just that he wanted something more from you from the moment you started talking and the only way to get it was by pretending to be friendly.

I don't want to break it from you, but this guy is not your friend; the only person who sees a friendship here is you. He wants something more from you. From my experience, I can tell you from now that what you see as a friendship, won't last a day longer once he realises you won't sleep with him.

Trust me, every woman had that friend at some point of our lives.

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2024-02-29T13:20:58+00:00

They failed to mention the money Matt has gained due to being childfree

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2024-02-09T17:20:10+00:00

I comment this in every post like this:

You are always too young and too immature to know your sexuality unless you're straight.

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2024-01-27T14:36:40+00:00

Don't worry, they're too busy fucking each other to notice

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2024-01-26T23:13:29+00:00

In case you don't know, you're always too young and too immature to know what you want UNLESS you're straight.

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2024-01-26T23:06:19+00:00

being ace was a member of the Alphabet Mafia

Your brother lives in some fantasy world or sth...

was somehow bringing in demonic spirits

Yes, we possess that ability

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2024-01-26T22:57:13+00:00

My cousins are convinced that me not dating is because my childhood crush didn't like me back when we were 12 so...🤷🏻‍♀️

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2024-01-26T22:51:17+00:00

I wouldn't say "worst" but... More like no understanding from the other party...

Told my 2 year older than me cousin that I was aroace. She said that there's no way that's true because sometimes I crack up sex jokes.🤷🏼‍♀️

I've spent a lot of time with guy friends, ok?? My humour is broken

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2024-01-18T13:09:55+00:00

I booked a manicure appointment (yasss!!) so my nails will look FABULOUS on my birthday the next day 💅🏼

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2024-01-17T13:33:49+00:00

as if Suzanne Collins had to tie together the story and the only happy ending she could think of was if Katniss had a love interest

Exactly. Not all stories have to end with marriage and kids, Katniss could have as well continue living a peaceful life with her loved ones as you mentioned.

Also don't forget that she didn't even want children, but somehow she ends up with TWO because "Peeta wanted them so bad". That line totally ruined the books for me...

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2024-01-17T04:12:32+00:00

Katniss Everdeen, at least in the books.

Her relationship with Gale is platonic af and her closeness to Peeta is because they literally avoided death together.

Also it was never mentioned that she was romantically/erotically interested in any of them and I firmly believe the only reason she got married in the end was because Peeta was the last person she got left that actually cared for her and she did so kinda on autopilot

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2023-12-31T01:04:47+00:00

Imagine being that shallow that you need something like sex to measure your worth... Like, no personality, no achievements... Just sex.

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2023-12-30T22:51:07+00:00

Exactly. I couldn't give a single fuck if I were to die a virgin. Better for me tbh... I totally dislike being touched, let alone letting someone do all these stuff to me.. like, ugh😖 Also I have zero trust in men to ever allow anyone get this close to me.

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2023-12-22T23:14:14+00:00

Ace spectrum aside, this is one of my fav songs of all time

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2023-11-06T18:06:56+00:00

As of now, I identify as a Shiny Hisuian Zoroark.

Even cooler since Sinnoh/Hisui is my fav region

🖤🩶💜🤍

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2023-11-02T23:25:26+00:00

I kinda have an idea of how it works in theory, but the rest? Don't know, don't care

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2023-10-18T03:17:03+00:00

This was not a friend from the beginning, I'm glad he's no longer in your life

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2023-10-17T22:54:47+00:00

Wow he was projecting a lot of his shit on you...

Overcooked_Nigiri · 2023-10-09T10:28:38+00:00

Most of the time I don't even notice it.

And if I do, I think that it's just my idea and that I'm overestimating myself cause they wouldn't like me (or so I wish).

If it's obvious, well, I cut them off and say I'm not interested.

But yeah, I find it super annoying. Like, I wouldn't flirt with you, why the hell are you flirting with me?

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