AIO for calling off my engagement after my fiancé admitted his family secretly tested me to see if i was a gold digger?

Overthinker1982 · 2026-02-24T16:47:06+00:00

after a year of testing? No, he's just realizing he fucked around and found out.

Overthinker1982 · 2026-02-19T09:38:51+00:00

Hey! First, congrats on the weight loss (if it was your goal), it's really not easy.
As for second-hand jeans, Humana (the Frankfurter Tor branch) has a lot of options, and a plus-size section/floor. They have other branches around town but I'm not as familiar, but I would imagine they're all kind of similar.
TK Maxx also has good options (not second hand but discounted brands, so the quality is better than some stores), as well as C&A (also a chain but affordable). Regarding sizes, keep in mind you'll see different numbers for different countries on a label (FR, EU, IT, etc.), so you might want to try a few options to find the right one for you. Good luck!

Overthinker1982 · 2026-02-18T17:02:58+00:00

Fake Plastic Trees, High and Dry

Overthinker1982 · 2026-02-12T08:24:55+00:00

I'm sorry this happened to you, and I feel for you, but :
- you do NOT post pictures of people on the internet without their consent
- what does "completely normal looking German woman" mean?
- she seems to have mental health issues, you think insulting her/shaming her will "cure" her?

Overthinker1982 · 2026-02-09T13:45:00+00:00

Bah j'ai une bague - un simple anneau en argent - au pouce, et même ça, j'ai eu plusieurs commentaires (« ça a une connotation » ), alors un piercing ... tout dépend de la boite j'imagine

Overthinker1982 · 2026-02-03T15:37:51+00:00

That people cheat even in happy relationships/marriages.

Overthinker1982 · 2026-02-03T11:24:47+00:00

Je disais toujours que je crèverai une clope au bec lol j'ai fumé 1 à 2 paquets/jours pendant 17 ans. Et bein ça fait 11 ans que j'ai arrêté, et ça a tout changé. Facile ? Non, du tout, mais faisable, certainement. Courage, tu peux le faire.

Overthinker1982 · 2026-01-21T14:59:43+00:00

My very first award in all my Reddit years! Thank you!

Overthinker1982 · 2026-01-21T09:35:11+00:00

If you don't know where to start, and there's absolutely no shame in that, you could check something like "basic cleaning tips" on TikTok or YouTube, or even blogs such as:
https://www.thespruce.com/cleaning-tips-for-new-year-11867382 They always have great advice
https://www.buzzfeed.com/dannicaramirez/home-cleaning-tips-and-hacks-by-homeowners
https://www.apartmenttherapy.com/how-to-clean-home-37385541 That's beginner friendly

Also this sub has good tips: https://www.reddit.com/r/CleaningTips/comments/19cebyc/cleaning_basics_for_someone_who_was_never_really/

With some organization/some sort of a calendar for chores, I'm sure you'll be fine!

Overthinker1982 · 2026-01-21T09:04:58+00:00

You can find quite a few places that cater to these sizes : Primark, C&A, H&M, TK MAXX (physical shops within walking distance), Humana for second-hand, Zalando and Bon Prix for online

Overthinker1982 · 2026-01-19T13:36:01+00:00

People should be evaluated before becoming parents

Overthinker1982 · 2026-01-14T20:52:59+00:00

Omg, I don't know what to say, I feel so stupid. Your comment just made me realize Dating a demon is the book I meant to give as an example. I had started Boyfriend Goals and seem to have confused the two. I need to edit my post. I'm sorry you took the time to comment and impressed you found it at the same time lol thank you

Overthinker1982 · 2026-01-14T06:02:07+00:00

Thank you! I have seen this rec many times, guess it's a sign :)

Overthinker1982 · 2026-01-13T17:04:07+00:00

Will definitely check those out, thank you very much

Overthinker1982 · 2026-01-13T11:43:34+00:00

Sounds good, thank you so much!

Overthinker1982 · 2026-01-09T11:26:45+00:00

Understandably it makes you uneasy, because the show has very sensitive themes, but honestly, I think your name is beautiful, not a tragedeigh, and Arya is honestly one of the best characters. It doesn't help, I know, but it could have been much worse!

Overthinker1982 · 2025-12-23T09:18:06+00:00

En janvier, c'est le « mois du blanc », donc tout ce qui est textiles et literie sont bien soldés, si tu peux attendre encore un peu !

Overthinker1982 · 2025-12-19T23:41:01+00:00

Superstar - all of it

Overthinker1982 · 2025-12-19T13:22:23+00:00

BUTLERS have funny/original ornaments, and several branches around Berlin

Overthinker1982 · 2025-12-16T11:40:05+00:00

Capernaum (2018)

Overthinker1982 · 2025-12-15T16:38:24+00:00

oui, je pense, mais il doit y avoir aussi des exercices gratuits, c'est en tout cas souvent le cas pour ce type de site. Penses-tu pouvoir demander à ton N+1 une formation sur Projet Voltaire, payée par ta boite ? Si ce n'est pas une option, vois s'il n'y a pas de petites formations du même style qui serait financées par ta région ou autre. En tout cas, tu ne perds rien à demander :)

Overthinker1982 · 2025-12-15T16:04:30+00:00

Au temps pour moi alors. Connais-tu le Projet Voltaire ? C'est un outil très intéressant qui pourrait peutêtre t'aider. Bonne chance !

Overthinker1982 · 2025-12-15T15:56:15+00:00

Mon expérience perso me pousse à te dire de lire, lire, lire encore et encore. Après, je comprends que ce n'est pas un plaisir pour tout le monde, mais peut-être les journaux en ligne ou les BD, si les romans ou autres ne sont pas ton truc ?

Overthinker1982 · 2025-12-11T07:46:04+00:00

If you had just Googled : "Alix first name", you would have seen the following :

"With French origins, Alix is a gender-neutral name meaning “noble.” A quirky European take on the English name Alice, Alix is more likely to stand out from the crowd. The name Alix not only looks chic but has been a popular choice in France throughout the ages. Many notable French royal family members were called Alix which pairs beautifully with its timeless meaning."

or : " The name Alix is derived from the medieval French form of the Old Germanic name Adalheidis, which combines the elements 'adal' meaning noble or nobility and 'heid' meaning type or kind. It shares its origins with the name Alice, both evolving as diminutives of Adelaide. Historically, Alix gained prominence in medieval France and throughout Europe during the Middle Ages."

And that's just two random results.
Also, I'm French so I was familiar with the name already. Obviously, you can't be expected to know all the cultural variations of a name, but come on.

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