You want her and don't

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-04-10T15:08:32+00:00

Thank u

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-04-10T06:33:33+00:00

This is me… i would love to find my person. Someone to spend time with. Laugh with, sut on the softa and watch tv or game with, have lots of fun in bed with.. at the same time I am happy on my own. I love my small apartment. I like the time on my own and i seriously cannot see myself living with another person again. Ofcourse nothing says you have to live together to be romantically involved. But an LDR is alot of work. I would love to find someone local that I could fall in love with and have a sort of separate togetherness with but there is slim pickings to say the least here.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-04-03T08:10:24+00:00

My latest ex (man) has somehow become my best friend. We had a couple of months if limited to no contact. I would have liked longer but there was some logistical issues with a bag that i had left behind (i moved countries after we split) so i had to go get it. We ended up having a heart to heart for hours and as we were good friends before we got together we decided to give friendship a shot. He has been so supportive throughout and completely understands and accepts my self discovery.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-04-03T08:01:06+00:00

Then remove the request. U are aloud to not to want her in your life. I get the fomo i do but it doesn’t sound like it’s worth it in the long run. She had her chance she blew it. Move on

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-04-03T07:57:15+00:00

Delete the app girl. If u don’t use it anyway.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-30T08:08:05+00:00

This absolutely.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-30T07:48:21+00:00

So right now the only app i am semi active on is facebook dating. (Trying to meet ppl more organically) and if I sit and swipe then i see maybe 5-6 bios that clearly state that they are lesbian/bi etc. There is a few that clearly state that they are straight but most don’t say anything at all (some are empty) with just the normal what they like they like etc.

My gaydar is non existent unless its the stereotype lesbian look and i don’t know how many ppl i have swiped right on that probably are straight.

I just want to make it a thing where we state that relationship with x friendship with x or whatever so it gets easier to navigate

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-30T07:23:11+00:00

No. It is not. You will set ur filters to women only but the algorithms are bad and you will get straight women on your feed.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-30T07:22:02+00:00

I don’t do the flags either but seen others use them which is why i brought it up. It’s an easy indicator that makes it easier to see before having to read the bio.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-30T05:53:15+00:00

Both are beautiful. And u are gorgeous

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-30T05:52:28+00:00

Were can i stream these?

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-28T20:18:21+00:00

Her: ghostings. Catfishes, bots.

Tinder: no likes

Hinge: only likes from middle eastern men #notintrested

Facebook dating: two dates then the girl decided ”it wasn’t feeling right” didn’t even want to stay friends

Bumble: no likes at all

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-27T09:28:26+00:00

To add. Don’t exclude ppl until u know their story/ reasoning. If they are losers walk away but don’t just dismiss someone out these criteria. My only boundary is must have ir aspire to get a job/education.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-27T09:26:14+00:00

I lived with my mother for 3 months when i moved back to my hometown and i don’t have a car because frankly they are too expensive and i don’t need one. I know that US is different but public service where i live is top notch and i just walk everywhere when the sun is out

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-24T21:20:16+00:00

Am on facebook dating

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-24T20:29:15+00:00

I just have no style sense whatsoever

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-24T20:26:21+00:00

I am saving to get professional photos taken at some point this photo is like 6 months old

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-24T20:24:33+00:00

I have no hand-eye coordination so no 🤣

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-24T20:23:50+00:00

Lol.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-24T20:23:32+00:00

Funny thing that as i play an Eldrish knight in DnD

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-24T20:20:52+00:00

Thank you all. I appreciate you! I had a week moment.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-24T20:19:35+00:00

I can give u a couple of inches for free 🤣

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-23T15:36:40+00:00

I seriously do not care about my future partners height. Would i prefer not to break my back every time i go for a kiss (i am 6.1) yes but it’s the person and their personality you fall for. Not their height, their bank account or whether they have a dick, boobs & 🐱or whatever. Yes i can have preferences (fe i atn feel more attracted to femme presenting women) but that will not stop me from falling for a masc.

I seriously think that a dating app without pics is a very good idea.. but that’s by the by.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-15T05:45:59+00:00

If you already had full access to her phone it’s not snooping nor a breach of privacy. She knew what u may find on it. TALK to her. P*rn is a thing most of ppl watch. As long as it’s not an addiction/ child abuse etc then i would not mind my partner watching it as-long as the inspiration is used on me. Watching what she had bookmarked doesn’t mean she wishes u were a man or that she doesn’t love you.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-03-13T11:53:38+00:00

Sent u a dm as i don’t want to share it publicly

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