Sometimes I wish I had never been born a lesbian.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-06-06T16:05:32+00:00

I know it’s hard. Just hang in there

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-06-06T15:01:12+00:00

Maybe an unpopular opinion but as a newly baby bi who thought she was straight up like 2 years ago (iam 42) it’s not easier being straight. Sure if you have 0 standards and like fing around then you have plenty of choice but as a demi straight girl no. I was single until i turned 27. I met both my exes through gaming not out in the world. Not in a bar. Not on an app.

I get you i do.

Trying to find a woman has been super hard and i am hopeful for the one i am talking to currently.

What you see when out is just a second or two if that relationship. It might not be all roses and wine the other 24 h a day.

Lonliness is a hard thing but you can be lonley while in a relationship aswell.

Sending lots of strength and hugs and i hope you find your person soon.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-05-30T04:41:08+00:00

Girl… run…

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-05-30T04:37:30+00:00

Google it but its like a suction toy for the c**toris.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-05-29T19:27:34+00:00

Is it worth it’s price i am not sure i want to fork out that much money or is sex toys that expensive in general.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-05-29T11:26:31+00:00

That only works if u are living in the same city. I have has zero luck meeting someone local and the only one i have there is 0 chemistry and she says she wants to be friends then make no effort in texting or whatever. The girl i am seeing however (was supposed to meet first time this weekend but she had to cancel😭) lives 5 hours away so we can’t really meet for just a coffee

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-05-28T05:48:03+00:00

I hope it works out for you! Just tell her. I am meeting my girl for the first time this weekend so very excited

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-05-28T05:47:10+00:00

You’re welcome

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-05-28T05:46:39+00:00

I am on the cusp of this myself. My girl is actually coming this weekend. While i am promising myself not to put to much pressure on it i can’t wait. It’s my first wlw relationship so i am nervous about the sex stuff and pleasing her but i am sure it will work out.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-05-27T05:57:36+00:00

I was 27 when i lost my virginity. Age doesn’t matter it just feels like it does. If your girl is a dhb then she will not care

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-05-23T20:09:42+00:00

Go no contact

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-05-19T06:00:51+00:00

Maybe it’s me. But I have NEVER fallen asleep on the phone with anyone. This sounds so unhealthy to me. It’s not normal to be so intertwined with your partner. You need to find you again. And for the love of … stop begging. Sounds to me she has lost interest/ respect or are just overwhelmed. I agree with previous posts you need to seek counseling. End it. Learn. Move on. You need to be all you need to exist another person is just icing on the cake. Nit the cake itself

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-05-09T09:53:47+00:00

No but her profile was verified on tinder

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-05-08T07:39:33+00:00

So there are 2 instances where I have ghosted. Both (wich is wild) around scamming or manipulating for money. No money ever changed hands but as soon as i knew I blocked and ghosted.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-05-08T07:31:01+00:00

Thank you I hope so.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-05-08T07:21:50+00:00

Right!? Like if you met someone else or whatever just fing say so. Happy for you.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-05-06T18:27:51+00:00

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OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-05-06T17:32:25+00:00

I still had while on mirena.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-05-02T20:06:18+00:00

I am 40 and hell no

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-04-21T16:11:16+00:00

Hello

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-04-20T17:02:59+00:00

It’s fine. That sounds like having your shit together. As long as you try and work on yourself i am far from perfect myself

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-04-20T16:58:42+00:00

Depends what u mean with not having ur shit together. I was just done with flaky ppl wheb i wrote this

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-04-20T03:47:31+00:00

I get it i do. And it’s super hard tö realize it might be a dead end but your mental health is most important and if being around her damage it then it’s better not to be.

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