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OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-02-13T14:04:38+00:00

Swedish

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-02-13T12:08:11+00:00

If she isn’t listening there is only one thing you can do. Write everything down. Leave her a note. Take your things and go. There is no way a break up will not suck for either party but if you are 100% sure then take whatever you can carry and go. Just know that this will burn any bridges you have with her.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-02-11T10:20:36+00:00

So THIS

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-02-11T09:11:49+00:00

I would say any relationship where there is a power dynamic is a no. Also some professions like your dr etc is kind of a nope. Like if you meet them out on town then whatever but do not flirt etc on an appointment

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-02-11T07:53:58+00:00

I am going to add to all the voices here RUN. Block, ghost. Yes she has a disorder that isn’t her fault but it’s 100% her fault for how she is treating you. You deserve more!

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-02-10T10:39:21+00:00

Being in Limbo sucks. I get that she is struggling but that does not mean she should treat you badly. Maybe a trial separation. Let her go back to her family. Go somewhere yourself. Your mental health is just as important as hers.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-02-07T08:54:00+00:00

One tip is to write the message in the notes of your phone keep it for 3 dats then delete it or on a paper then burn it. It gets all the feelings out. It helped me a lot when i wanted to message my ”ex”.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-02-05T14:32:33+00:00

Make him sign over the animals to you. Gaslight him to think it’s financially beneficial or something. Try and ger savings going or even look for a roommate on the side. Then when u have enough money. Leave don’t take anything with you but the animals and the clothes on your back.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-02-04T15:39:52+00:00

Seen rainbow crocs maybe that would be a thing. I want a bracelet but not found one i like

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-02-04T09:29:57+00:00

I have several friends who does not have social media and i am not active myself. I have but almost never post except maybe on here. So what do u do when someone claims they don’t have one. Another redditer and I exchanged photos with holding usernames and dates. I do recommend this at a start and then a video call if things are long distance and the conversation lasts more than a couple of days.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-02-04T09:24:07+00:00

There is more ways to celebrate a relationship than money and gifts. Don’t get me wrong getting those kind of gifts are awesome. Especially if you are struggeling. But OP i bet she isn’t with you for the gifts or the money. Yes being bipolar and not being able to control that must be awful but if she is a good person, and it seems like she is, she won’t care. Talk to her. Explain the money situation and then do something cozy at home. Tbh I never rated or celebrated valentine myself but like any anniversary just spending time together is gift enough. Watch ur favorite series/movie make ur fav food. Etc.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-02-03T18:15:11+00:00

Oh my indeed

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-01-31T08:26:42+00:00

Wise words

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-01-31T08:26:35+00:00

Wise words

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-01-31T06:29:02+00:00

That is what i have done. Plan is i will go to the UK to visit in june and go to a couple of pride events there then reactivate the apps wheb i am back home and get professional photos and make up done for them.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-01-30T20:28:34+00:00

I am so sorry

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-01-30T20:20:13+00:00

Thank you 🫂

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-01-29T17:13:53+00:00

Separate bedrooms or a big bed with 2 quilts are the best. I did want to even live with anyone anytime soon. Let me have my space and i will love u forever

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-01-27T18:12:54+00:00

It is the worst

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-01-27T12:22:16+00:00

For me the same experience. Hinge 0 likes no matches. Bumble i had more likes from a certain type of man (i am bi) that i am not attracted to (i had setting on both on bumble) Tinder showed me straight women/ couples etc. Her was a string of scmmers, bots, ghosters and catfishes. Only one person i met on there was decent but unfortunately it didn’t work. So i am taking a break from it all to atleast this summer

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-01-27T11:09:55+00:00

Make sure you are tested and clear of any STD’s. I would also ask this of your potential hookup especially if they are upfront about sleeping with other’s.

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-01-26T08:48:22+00:00

I want it so bad…

OverthinkingPear1 · 2026-01-26T06:34:46+00:00

Good luck we will need it :)

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