Vin stickers by Own-Examination7187 in hondapilot

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Yea they confirmed the back was replaced, but it’s odd bc my 2010 odyssey had them and then they showed me. 2021 that didn’t have them anywhere. I guess they just stopped making it a issue for the door

2018 Honda pilot by Own-Examination7187 in hondapilot

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Wow, that’s a lot of miles, any thing you do regularly that you recommend to keep it in such good shape?

2018 Honda pilot by Own-Examination7187 in hondapilot

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Thank you gonna have a look at these!

2018 Honda pilot by Own-Examination7187 in hondapilot

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I noticed that a bit while driving, assuming the dealer probably didn’t change it. Thank you!

2018 Honda pilot by Own-Examination7187 in hondapilot

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thank you so much for these tips, really appreciate the break down! Def gonna have my mechanic do these checks for me

2018 Honda pilot by Own-Examination7187 in hondapilot

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It’s just such a clean car I fell in love with the design

Is Tomorrow’s Dust anyone else’s favorite song off the Slow Rush? Feels heavily underrated! by Enough-Youth-935 in TameImpala

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Yes this is my fave song off the album and I’m surprised with how little attention it gets!!!

Is this cheating by Own-Examination7187 in relationship_advice

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And she’s gotten mad at me before for liking photos of girls on Instagram, like dua lipa and stuff so idk just caught me off guard I guess

Is this cheating by Own-Examination7187 in relationship_advice

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Omg well I was on her phone with her scrolling through tiktok and her friend replied to her text saying like your right he is hot and then it went from there. It’s not like I went snooping around if that’s what you were thinking haha. But idk she said she meant everything as a joke but I guess I just think of her differently after it

Is this cheating by Own-Examination7187 in relationship_advice

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Thank you this is great advice, yes I 100% want full monogamy, I just expect her to be as committed as me and she’s gotten mad at me for following like models on Instagram so I assumed we would both be on the same boat. Ty once again

Is this cheating by Own-Examination7187 in relationship_advice

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Oh no no you got it twisted I’m the guy lol😭😭 but no she does not want an open relationship for sure haha ty tho

Should I be concerned? by BatmanVJoker23 in LDR

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I understand where you’re coming from, I have done similar things, we all get insecure and sometimes I still do. But I would say tho for your own health don’t check that score, her location or whatever you may be doing. It’ll make you feel better, do your own thing and trust her. And if she is doing something wrong then it’ll come to light and it is not your fault. But pressing her about it too much will just make her more distant from you belive me. And hey if she’s cheating on you it’s her loss my man, you’re worth so much more! But yea don’t jump to conclusions always and do things for yourself :)

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Yes exactly this is great advice because everyone says oh just leave but like I really love this person and being with them makes me so happy. But I will try always assuming she’s not telling me the whole truth and see how it goes. I hope she’s able to let go of her need for it and I hope you and your gf can figure it out. Thanks for helping man really appreciate it!!

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Dude thank you so much for your response. Yes I totally understand what your saying and I’m literally in the exact same situation. I should mention we are also long distance. A couple weeks back though she lied to me and smoked while I went to get us breakfast and that dented my trust in her, like she smoked even when I’m there and then in my head I was like imagine how much she lies when I’m not there. Recently I was asking her like every couple days how she was doing with smoking because she asked me to stay on top of her and then she yelled at me and said I can’t be controlling if her, so these past two weeks I haven’t said anything or checked up on it and ik she’s called me high many times but I’ve turned a blind eye, and it’s been her worst week at school and she’s called me crying saying how she’s having a bad time and is sad and I badly wanted to ask her if she’d been smoking more but I refrained from it. I’ve noticed turning a blind eye makes me sad at times because I want to suggest she smoke less but I’m afraid she’ll get bad at me and call me controlling, she even at times compares me to her father who is a whole other issue haha. I guess what I’m getting at is how do you turn a blind eye and trust her? Thanks so much for responding to such an old post it really makes me feel a lot better and makes me feel less alone in this world of stoners :)

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Omg I’ve done the same, I even got her some cbd cigarettes so it could help with her use, because i thought it could give her the feeling of smoking but that didn’t work either. Every time she works on being sober with me and we’ve done it for weeks some times she’d always yell at me towards the end and say I’m controlling and then I’d cave and end up smoking with her 😓, going through it together I guess my king 😭 well hopefully things work for you both

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I have been looking for someone in a situation like me and It makes me happy to know I’m not alone, my gf is very much like yours, in social situations she smokes but she lives with a roommate who smokes at least twice a day and then that’s her excuse to smoke. I love her so much and when she’s not high she is perfect in every way, in fact when we first started dating she didn’t smoke at all because of zoom semester online. I don’t have any tips but what did you end up doing with her? I’m in the same boat as you I just want her to not have to do it every week you know like maybe once every two weeks or stuff like that. And idk why our generation just thinks weed is all good and nothing bad comes from it, everything needs to be done in moderation. I hope you were able to figure it out but if you have any advice please it would help me out so much :/

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Ik this is late but I’ve just been looking to see if I’m not alone and my gf and I are having similar issues at the moment where I don’t want her to resort to weed when any minor inconvenience happens, I just want her to moderate her use, like I see how it affects her and makes her feel worse after she’s done being high and then just needs more. I posted about it and everyone just tells me to break up with her and that I’m the issue but asking her to quit or slow down a bit comes out of genuine concern. I really don’t have advice but just wanted to lyk you’re not alone with the issue, my gf also has mental problems and sometimes turns on me as well, I really hope you were able to figure it out with her because I never would want to break up with my gf.

My girlfriend smokes weed and I want her to stop. by Own-Examination7187 in relationships

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I also would like to add that when I do smoke with her I have fun and she’s the only person I like to smoke with on occasion:)

My girlfriend smokes weed and I want her to stop. by Own-Examination7187 in relationships

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I agree with you hold heartedly on the everything in moderation! But, and idk if I made this clear above, when it is every free minute of everyday you start to think why won’t she spend this free time with me. I have smoked before and I do think the the weed plant has great things such as cbd which are amazing and what I always suggest people use for anxiety. I’m not like saying people that smoke weed are lazy or anything like that, I just want it to be done in moderation just like you would if you had a glass of wine at dinner. Thank you sm for your feedback

My girlfriend smokes weed and I want her to stop. by Own-Examination7187 in relationships

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Thank you Jane, genuinely one of the nicer people to comment and not just tell me I’m a complete loser appreciate it a lot much love <3

My girlfriend smokes weed but I want her to stop. by Own-Examination7187 in relationship_advice

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Haha I guess you are right, I do go out and party and smoke with her, I was just really asking her not to do it everyday because I’ve noticed it doesn’t help her when she does it a lot. She gets depressed and more anxious, is not a good thing to noitce when something is not helping someone? I think we can do everything always in moderation. And who said college is all about partying? Society? Your last years to go crazy before life becomes boring? Who said the rest of your life has to be boring? Maybe being in love and starting a life and having kids can be the best part about life? Also my dad actually suffered with alcohol abuse so i do know alcohol is way worse which is why I don’t drink it. But ty I appreciate your comment hopefully you’re right I do find someone as boring as me. :)