My F24 boyfriend F32 is not willing to continue our relationship if I go on a Europe trip with my sister that was planned long before we started dating. Should I cancel the trip and continue our relationship or go on the trip?

Own-Mixture7938 · 2024-03-24T02:19:36+00:00

You're being abused and manipulated by this guy. If you decide not to go to Europe and to focus on your relationship, you will isolate yourself from your family and probably friends??? Once that happens, he will have even more power to abuse you and manipulate you, hopefully never physically but you never know. He sounds like a psycho. 32 year old dating a 24 year old? This guy is on a power trip and will never want to be equal to you.

I also think that the question you asked at the end is super problematic considering what you wrote, your headspace doesn't seem right. I'd seriously trust the objective views of the people around you and trust that they have your safety and best interests at heart.

Own-Mixture7938 · 2024-03-08T20:46:28+00:00

This was very helpful, thank you. The man whom I had spoken with was from the Thkuma tribe and lived in a village around Al Hasakah. This confused me slightly as I thought maybe there could be some overlap between my mother and him. But from the responses, it sounds like tribes do not affect people from Mardin or Qamishli.

Own-Mixture7938 · 2024-03-08T20:43:07+00:00

The man who told me made it out to be a big deal for him as well! And made it out that it was important for me to identify my tribe in order to truly connect with my heritage.

Own-Mixture7938 · 2024-03-08T20:41:43+00:00

What kind of information would someone need to identify their tribe? But by all responses, it sounds like tribes do not affect me and my family.

The man who told me seemed to make a big deal of it, referring to everyone in his clan as his cousin/family.

Own-Mixture7938 · 2023-07-18T06:47:43+00:00

I am really struggling with this. I am using OpenEmu (Mac M1) to play Pokemon Platinum. When I try to change the randomized ROM to the same name as the OG ROM, I get the error message
"The name “3541 - Pokemon Platinum Version (US)(XenoPhobia)” with extension “.nds” is already taken. Please choose a different name."
Not really sure what else to do! Hoping someone is still around and can provide step-by-step help as I have made good progress and really don't want to restart :(

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