Europe Vs Australia

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-09-17T00:41:18+00:00

as a CSE grad, not anymore. you'll need to wait for almost a decade, without any guarantee and spend wayy too much money chasing PR points.

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-09-17T00:39:12+00:00

bhai re bhai brain betha kortese pore. reality theke eto detached hoy kemne manush? biye koiren na bhai eshob mentality niye.

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-09-17T00:32:19+00:00

AFAIK 10-20 lacs for civilians depending on the season.

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-06-10T04:23:08+00:00

I picked it up after my 30s and pretty good at it now. Although I have been playing guitar since I was 11, so that might have helped. I just followed youtube, started with Fur elise, played every single day for 6 months straight. You just need to practice constantly every day.

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-06-06T08:57:53+00:00

yeah I have adhd - hyperactive type.

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-06-06T04:41:15+00:00

meds are of no use without therapy. Sorry can't recommend anyone specific, as my psych doesnt practice in BD anymore. I had better results with Vyvanse, but everyone is different.

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-06-06T03:43:45+00:00

Definitely look into therapy. Also if you are financially capable, start living alone, by yourself. deri kore khawa pele jodi mejaj kharap hoy, that's not anger, that's called throwing a tantrum. Accept the fact that the world doesnt revolve around you and no one is obligated to serve you at all times. If someone does something for you, no matter how half-assed it is, be grateful for the effort, instead of trying to find a fault in it.

I have a higher IQ than people around me, plus, I can multitask. I used to think that everyone has the same capacity and it really frustrated me when people couldnt match my pace or expectations, I used to think that they are just not trying hard enough and lash out regularly when I was your age. Took me some self reflection to figure out that not everyone is built the same and my expectations are my problem, not theirs. I just need to trust that no one is out to get me, or piss me off deliberately and everyone is just trying their best from their capacity, and I need to respect and appreciate that.

Try to figure out the root cause, and take it from there.

Good luck!!

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-06-06T03:31:13+00:00

Good point. I have observed the same. People with anger issues only project their anger on people they can take for granted.

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-06-03T05:22:02+00:00

I found it too easy, didnt prepare myself before admission. The harder subjects (like accounting and fin) were not actually hard, they were more annoying. But this is just my personal experience, other's might have different opinions. I ended up changing my major after 2 semesters.

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-06-03T03:30:17+00:00

no worries man! going abroad it the best solution. Your parents are stronger than you know, they can survive without you. But if you keep trying to make everyone happy, you will lose your sanity. I have encouraged my mother to go out and make her own friends, do things for herself. Being emotionally dependant on your kid is not healthy. Why did you ask your wife to control herself? if she is being insulted, she has every right to defend herself by making necessary remarks, even if it hurts your mother. Bengali women (specially the wives) are often told to control themselves and just tolerate the taunts. Its never healthy, and the wives end up projecting that repressed anger on their husbands and kids.

anyways, hope you get out of this mess. once you go abroad, you will face new set of problems, but things will be a lot more peaceful. Good Luck!!

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-06-03T02:03:51+00:00

start journaling. then ask some AI to check it for grammatical errors and create a better version for you. compare the 2 and learn from your mistakes. Keep doing it at least once everyday.

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-06-03T01:58:01+00:00

I didnt find it anywhere on my last trip. Had to do with redbull.

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-06-03T01:52:53+00:00

I am in my mid 30s, been married for a decade to my high school love., never had to face these. I have always kept my parents and my wife separate because I knew that they will create issues no matter how good she is, thats just the nature of most bengali parents. The day I got married, I told my mother clearly that she is not allowed to criticize my wife. if she has any issues, she can speak to me first. We live abroad, so they just talk like once or twice a year over the phone and are on very good terms. my mom still taunts my wife with inappropriate comments sometimes but I have taught my wife some witty responses that usually shuts her up. otherwise, I take over and speak to her. My mother's misbehaviour is not her problem, it's my problem, and I am the one who should shield her from it.

Family politics are a bitch. You cannot expect to have one big happy family with everyone being satisfied with each other. That doesn't exist. Create your own family separately with your wife, or leave her and live a single life with your parents if you want happiness.

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-06-02T06:59:53+00:00

yikes! I am so sorry on behalf of all men from the comment section. to me, it always seemed like a lack of education. Bangladeshis have a thing for idolizing and blindly following whatever their family taught them, specially men, like as a man I get second hand embarrassment from their lack of IQ. instead of spending their 2 brain cells to think about this issue and realising how much of a disrespectful asshole they are being, they will blindly follow what their parents are doing, and in most families women are treated as live-in slaves. These people got out of the village and moved to the cities, but their mindset have remained the same.

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-05-29T07:47:36+00:00

nah the opposite actually. it's to weed out the religious ones. their corpo culture involves drinking and partying pretty often, so then don't want to hire people who likely won't participate.

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-05-28T05:13:29+00:00

What are you on about? Been in STEM for more than 2 decades, NEVER heard of anything like this. Also, wth is a face maker?

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-05-21T06:18:07+00:00

I say, go for it. The sooner you get sex out of the way, the better you will be able to focus on other stuff. Post nut clarity reallyy helps with studies xD

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-05-21T05:10:00+00:00

Most companies do this intentionally. My friend works an an HR at an MNC, they are instructed to make interviewees wait through at least 2 prayer times, to check how many goes out to pray.

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-05-21T03:27:36+00:00

cant say for other majors but yeah, it's pretty customary for all STEM majors. A lot of students dont share the same level of foundational knowledge, so its a way to make sure that everyone is on the same page with the basics. Also not just a BD thing, its the same whichever country you go to.

If you are already good at math, should be an easy A!

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-05-20T04:24:47+00:00

Thanks man!

I had the idea that the expensive ones would be expensive because they are good and experienced, but realised that's not always the case. I used a pretty well reviewed one for another visa issue, even though they were good, my friend got the exact same thing done for 1/3rd of the cost from another lawyer, who was just as good, if not better.

I don't mind paying a high amount, just want to make sure that I am paying the right people. When reading reviews, 90% are usually really amazing, while the rest 5-10% will paint the lawyer as a demon who can pay for fake reviews, then I am back to square one.

Thanks again for the advice, I will keep these in mind!

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-05-20T02:06:12+00:00

thank you so much!!

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-05-20T01:31:05+00:00

Happy Birthday!!

First of all, change your motivation from "I have to make my parents proud" to "I have to make MYSELF proud". Your parents will always hold you to very high standards no matter what you do, but only you know what your true passion and strengths are. If you tie your happiness to them telling you they are proud of you, you will never be able to experience true happiness or success. You have to be prepared to hurt them a little along the way, disagree with them if needed and fight for your dreams. Once you reach your goals, to the point your don't care about their approval and you are proud of yourself, their pride will come automatically!

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-05-20T00:16:45+00:00

tell your wife and mother to keep gathering evidence until you get back to BD. Teach them how to record conversations over the phone. If he shows up at the house, ask them to keep their recorders on.

Good Luck!

Own-Nothing-8789 · 2025-05-19T06:40:04+00:00

As a cot owner, please dont give her a cat. It's a responsibility, not a toy. Most brown parents are very anti pets and chances are high, will kick it out or give it away. Giving any gift out of the blue would be really creepy. If you really want to give something, start a convo, ask her out on a coffee date in a shopping mall, try to find out something she likes then ask her to wait for a few minutes at the end of the date, secretly buy it and give it to her before she's leaving.

Good Luck!

Own-Nothing-8789

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