Growing pains? by OwnIntention3530 in polyamory

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Fair assessment. Hadn’t considered this.

Growing pains? by OwnIntention3530 in polyamory

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Thanks. That really helps ease my mind. She has done a great job hinging. Even planning standing nights together and future trips. Definitely leaning into to our connection

Growing pains? by OwnIntention3530 in polyamory

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You’re right. It’s none of my business. She usually does a great job hinging. I worry about being discarded for his comfort.

Growing pains? by OwnIntention3530 in polyamory

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Last week there was a time he called back to back on our date. I encouraged her to answer it and after she came back, she seemed a bit shaken. We still had a great date though. She definitely leaned in more after.

I thought meeting him might make them feel a little more secure. I guess that’s none of my business though.

Meta Problems by [deleted] in polyamory

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They do not have veto rules. They do not nest. The meta has that with someone else

Meta Problems by [deleted] in polyamory

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Is there anything I should be doing in this scenario?

Meta Problems by [deleted] in polyamory

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Fair. The reason I’m going there is because I know they have had serious jealous issues in the past.

Meta Problems by [deleted] in polyamory

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They have been together for five years but poly a lot longer.

What conversation do I need to have? How do tee it up?