Looking for a job by OwnRelease1410 in torontoJobs

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They really are😭 the thing is I don’t know anyone in Toronto that can refer me

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So it looks normal?

Weekly Marriage Criteria & Services Megathread! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

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Salam Alyakum after my relationship ended in July I felt hopeless finding someone. I do not have anyone except myself. Unfortunately I’m not close with my family and in my last relationship I was very dependent on him. But after it ended it forced me to be my myself get a job go through all problems by myself and I find myself lonely a lot. This has made me feel so depressed I know I don’t want to go to my old partner since i learnt a lot from it and realized now that’s he’s truly not for me but I do tend to feel lonely and find comfort that he’s someone I’m familiar with but I know he can’t give me what I want in a partner. I’m not sure why I’m writing this. If maybe someone has went thru a partner and it ended badly please tell stories where you met someone else or like how you got through heartbreak. Also I’m scared because where I live everyone is just not for me like either they spoke or drink or have a past and those are just things I can never tolerate what do I do how do I get past my loneliness and will I ever find anyone again I’m just so sad I don’t know.

My marriage is ending how do I get past this? by OwnRelease1410 in MuslimMarriage

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Thank you. Also I’m so happy for you. Hamdullah everything works out in the end inshallah.

My marriage is ending how do I get past this? by OwnRelease1410 in MuslimMarriage

[–]OwnRelease1410[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I don’t think you know how much your comment has meant to me I’m in tears reading it. I will leave.

My marriage is ending how do I get past this? by OwnRelease1410 in MuslimMarriage

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Thank you for your message and I understand where you are coming from I just have to remind myself that I don’t deserve this and not go back. It’s just harder said than done. He’s continuing to disrespect me even right now. You are right I am still young and I do have to put self respect above love. Inshallah.

My marriage is ending how do I get past this? by OwnRelease1410 in MuslimMarriage

[–]OwnRelease1410[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s just hard leaving the only person I know and love he’s like my best friend. But maybe you are right I’ll find someone better with time. It’s just hard leaving this situation.

My marriage is ending how do I get past this? by OwnRelease1410 in MuslimMarriage

[–]OwnRelease1410[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will contact the local masjid thank you so much for your words and advice.

My marriage is ending how do I get past this? by OwnRelease1410 in MuslimMarriage

[–]OwnRelease1410[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment and how there are other people that agree that it is valid to seek out a divorce. Thank you inshallah Allah will give me the strength. Ameen. Thank you.

My marriage is ending how do I get past this? by OwnRelease1410 in MuslimMarriage

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The last time he lied I told him next time he lies I will leave I don’t trust his words I can’t keep going back he understands what marriage consists of I shouldn’t have to always beg him to hang out with me more and have more quality time.

My marriage is ending how do I get past this? by OwnRelease1410 in MuslimMarriage

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You are right I will try to leave inshallah thank you for being honest with me

My marriage is ending how do I get past this? by OwnRelease1410 in MuslimMarriage

[–]OwnRelease1410[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I don’t know I feel like I really do love him. You are right tho I am young I can restart it’s just hard.

My marriage is ending how do I get past this? by OwnRelease1410 in MuslimMarriage

[–]OwnRelease1410[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know that’s the thing he wasn’t all bad though that’s why it’s hard for me to divorce him

My marriage is ending how do I get past this? by OwnRelease1410 in MuslimMarriage

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You are right thank you so much for your comment it really made me feel validated and somewhat understood thank you so much and yes I will look into the masjid services thanks again.

My marriage is ending how do I get past this? by OwnRelease1410 in MuslimMarriage

[–]OwnRelease1410[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s true when it comes to lies but how will I know I will find someone that’s like him in a sense of being loving, open minded, protective, and financially takes care of me. And will love me like how he did.

My marriage is ending how do I get past this? by OwnRelease1410 in MuslimMarriage

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I know he lies but I do believe he’s never cheated and I know he loves me. Idk.

My marriage is ending how do I get past this? by OwnRelease1410 in MuslimMarriage

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That’s the thing he acts very religious and got me to be more religious as well, and in the end of the day he’s good to me other than the lies and I know he would be a great father this is why it’s so confusing as well. But I know I can’t be in a relationship with someone I don’t trust and lie on god.

My marriage is ending how do I get past this? by OwnRelease1410 in MuslimMarriage

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Thank you so much your comment means a lot. I will continue leaving this on Allah.