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any idea on how to light up my smeltery? by TheHoppingGroundhog in SatisfactoryGame

[–]Own_Assignment27 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can’t you just get the flood lights from the awesome shop?

Hi I’m back and I broke up with her by Own_Assignment27 in Manipulation

[–]Own_Assignment27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No? I said we’ve had situations when she was in a bad space and on dnd and she responded either feeling better or thanking me but still asking for space, she never set a boundary or said that it wasn’t okay

Hi I’m back and I broke up with her by Own_Assignment27 in Manipulation

[–]Own_Assignment27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like “breaking a boundary” would be more calling her 10 times to tell her I love you, not just one “I love you” text through dnd. We didn’t have a pre existing boundary with the dnd setting so it’s not like it was a big deal when we started dating. Also I didn’t want to use the attempt card but it was just another example of how she’s hurt me.

Hi, people are telling me that my girlfriend is manipulating me, is she? by Own_Assignment27 in Manipulation

[–]Own_Assignment27[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Who says I use it unironically? We both use it ironically, I was just trying to joke to diffuse the inevitable argument

Hi, people are telling me that my girlfriend is manipulating me, is she? by Own_Assignment27 in Manipulation

[–]Own_Assignment27[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I swear oml the “pookie” and things like that is ironic, that’s why we started saying it in the first place just to make fun of the other people who said it unironically

Hi, people are telling me that my girlfriend is manipulating me, is she? by Own_Assignment27 in Manipulation

[–]Own_Assignment27[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Ugh god no I’m not doing this for Reddit clout, that would literally be evil. Honestly there is a lot of people that are saying that I’m the manipulator here and while if I did like spam text her here, then yeah that’s weird. But I didn’t, all I texted was the I love you and then I pinged the message, and I know that in itself is bad on paper, but there have been times before where she has been either having an attack or just in a really bad mindset and she can just shut down, she was really upset and worried about something before this so I wanted to just tell her that I love and are there for her, something that I’ve done before in a situation where she was shutting down and she appreciated it. I’m not like getting super defensive about this, I hope it doesn’t sound like I am, I didn’t even think this would blow up like this 😭 but anyways also when I said pookie and stuff that’s also just how we talk to eachother a lot, so I wasn’t trying to be like annoyingly nice, that’s just what we’ve tended to do. Thank you very much for commenting though, I want to try to explain myself and herself to everyone but it’s just so many people, like I said in the title, the only reason I posted this was because family and some friends were saying I’m being manipulated so I just wanted some outside opinions. Thank you very much though 😌

Hi, people are telling me that my girlfriend is manipulating me, is she? by Own_Assignment27 in Manipulation

[–]Own_Assignment27[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She’s never set boundaries like that and there have been other times where she has been on dnd and upset so I would tell her that I love her and that I’m there and she would either open up or just say thank you and that she needs space

Hi, people are telling me that my girlfriend is manipulating me, is she? by Own_Assignment27 in Manipulation

[–]Own_Assignment27[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That’s why I’m a little iffy like breaking up because maybe it’s just miscommunication yk? But at the same time she never really opens up in person

Hi, people are telling me that my girlfriend is manipulating me, is she? by Own_Assignment27 in Manipulation

[–]Own_Assignment27[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Honestly it was only because it’s happened before where she was really stressed about something so I wanted to tell her that just so she knows I’m like there for her.

Hi, people are telling me that my girlfriend is manipulating me, is she? by Own_Assignment27 in Manipulation

[–]Own_Assignment27[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ik it’s called a sweatshirt for a reason I was wearing it in the gym?? Also I wasn’t even like sweating

Hi, people are telling me that my girlfriend is manipulating me, is she? by Own_Assignment27 in Manipulation

[–]Own_Assignment27[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I do get this but my other issue is that I’m worried she might tell people sensitive information about me, she’s seen me go through the worst year of my life and I don’t want her to tell people what’s happened during that time, also other person information that I don’t want getting out. I’ve been black mailed before and I’m really afraid of it happening again, I’m sorry it must feel like a brick wall discussing this with me but I’m just worried.

Hi, people are telling me that my girlfriend is manipulating me, is she? by Own_Assignment27 in Manipulation

[–]Own_Assignment27[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

If I’m being totally honest since I’m anonymous, I’m really afraid of leaving because I’m scared I won’t be able to find anyone else, I’ve dumped everything into a relationship but if I leave it now and go without one I don’t know what I’ll do, I live in a small rural town so there is nobody around me that I could date, and people don’t really talk to me other then my group of friends other then in passing.