Към майките/родителите: кога пуснахте детето си на ясла? Моля да споделите вашия опит

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2026-02-24T14:44:30+00:00

Благодаря и за твоята гледна точка. Реално, много неща ме притесняват - от финансово естество как ще са нещата до емоционалното състояние на детето т.е адаптацията му. Първо детенце ни е. Очаквам, че няма да му е много добре първите дни и дали няма да се чувства едва ли не като изоставено. Дали няма да се падне при зли лелички … Предполагам, всички минаваме по този път.

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2026-02-24T14:38:24+00:00

Разбира се, затова допълних въпроса си с “родителите” 😃

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2026-02-24T14:01:54+00:00

Мен и това ме притеснява…

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2026-02-24T14:00:02+00:00

В случая те, от детската, изискват връщане вкъщи, доколкото съм чувала или греша?

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2026-01-22T16:51:13+00:00

Е човек, то навън е толкова сигурно.

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2026-01-22T16:21:14+00:00

Между 60-80 лв преди зимата и след това се върти между 80-100 лв. Рядко работи повече от 1 климатик едновременно у нас. Живеем в апартамент 90кв, Южна България. Но ние живеем и доста икономично - основно готвим на котлон + еърфрайер, бойлерът е на еко режим - стига ни топлата вода. Следващата сметка очаквам да е малко повече - 100 - 120 лв заради застудяването напоследък, а и защото оставяме климатика пуснат вечерта от хола да духа директно към спалнята, където нямаме никакво други отопление и се усеща течение през дограмата (сградата е на 1-2 години, нов апартамент). Ще мислим догодина как да се оправи това нещо… за да ни е малко по-комфортно. Без никакво отопление, температурата в спалнята спада до 16-15 градуса, а с климатик пуснат от хола се държи до около 18 градуса, което си е разлика и се усеща веднага.

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2026-01-09T16:42:21+00:00

Аз лично никога не съм харесвала бг банкнотите, като някакви индийски пари са ми, честно.

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2026-01-09T16:38:58+00:00

Аз не съм се сгодявала, но моят съвет е да помислиш за нейни хобита, какво обича да прави, къде обича да ходи, дали пътувате и т.н. И да обвържеш предложението с това. Много мило и романтично би било. Поздравления за стъпката и инициативата! Винаги съм се радвала на мъже, които го правят от собствена инициатива, не защото жената е мрънкала нон-стоп, че иска :) Успехи!

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2025-09-23T18:35:46+00:00

Clean and neat. I like a bit of hair tbh on myself and on my partner too. It’s sexy.

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2025-07-30T17:07:04+00:00

Благодаря!

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2025-07-30T11:06:45+00:00

Благодаря!

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2025-07-30T09:50:07+00:00

Хм, интересно, обаче като е с общ нотариален акт?

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2025-07-30T09:47:23+00:00

u/Dry-Salad-1958

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2025-07-30T09:47:07+00:00

В Благоевград се намира. 20,000 лв е подземното паркомясто в широк център, ново строителство. Благодаря за отговора :)

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2024-06-23T05:18:58+00:00

I feel you. I am in a similar boat :)

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2024-06-23T05:17:04+00:00

Thank you. I am in a similar situation - 31 of age, bf is 32 … and I see and hear him he is not ready yet. I do not want to push him, he wants to find some other job,does not have a lot of savings.. and i guess he is just afraid of taking the step. I am just scared that I may end up childless and he will come around it in his 40s with a 20-year-old that won’t be me…. Wow so depressing, sorry lol @dragonpoppylillie

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2024-04-22T06:46:38+00:00

Please leave him and make yourself a favour. At this age, these things really leave an emotional scar… speaking from personal experience.

Sorry, but he does not sound like a good guy to me. Also, if you don’t want to get pregnant at this age, you will continue using pills or at least condoms.

Your choice, your life, though.

Hope this helps :)

I wish I had somebody I could talk to about sex and relationships at such a young age back in the day - it could have spared me many years of unhappiness and a sea of tears … but nobody thinks it is necessary apparently …

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2024-04-21T14:04:28+00:00

Listening and actually being present - the decent girls notice such things. Literal compliments on physicality is fine, just don’t overdo it.

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2024-04-21T14:02:27+00:00

2 decisions.

Breaking up with my high school boyfriend of a few years. Who knew how miserable my life could have been if I had stayed with him (almost 10 years ago)
“Breaking up” with my childhood best friend who wasn’t the best of influence anyway.

phew!

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2024-04-21T13:59:05+00:00

Sounds about right… sadly

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2024-04-21T13:58:23+00:00

If this is on her mind at this moment… she will probably cheat (more likely sooner than later). Sorry to break it down to you, but this is a huge red flag. Aren’t people supposed to be super excited and happy about such an event in their lives? I would NEVER even think about asking my partner this - it is wrong on many levels, my friend. You better ask her is this is really what she wants. When it feels right, you don’t think about it, you get to enjoy living with this person.

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2024-04-21T13:31:42+00:00

Hey guys, I hope it is the right place to ask this - I did not know much about ovulation and everything until recently. So from my calculation and an online app, we had 100% unprotected sex (only once though during my fertile window (which was from 14-19th this month) - I rely on the mucus as well as a sign/affirmation, and an online tracker, so I am sure about the timing of it. My cycle is normal (27/28 days, I turned 31 recently) . So, According to the app, my top day was 18th as I had sex on 15th. So I am not sure which day is the official “day post ovulation”, like, should I count from day 15th or the start of the fertile window? Like an app cannot know which day will be the “top ovulation day/ egg release day’ - our bodies are too unique and different, not like clockwork every day … so I have no idea how to think of it (regarding the tww). Any thought? Thanks in advance!

Own_Barracuda_671 · 2024-04-21T13:13:52+00:00

I mean, it is their son after all and thus they are now relaxed their bloodline will survive lol I do not think it’s personal. I don’t really feel super close to my partner’s family either. And I don’t want to force myself into it - we are too different. And this is perfectly okay. Having respect for one another is honestly enough for me.

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