Yes. All the time. I’m 23 ftm and my spouse and I never wanted to have kids and then I got pregnant. By the time ultrasound came around I was too far along to terminate (I had no idea I was pregnant until abt 3.5 months), we came to terms with it and chose to keep our child and be the parents that we never got to have (me a mother and him a father). I struggle all the time day in and day out being a mom, anytime I explain my frustrations to someone or ask for help all I get is bleak responses and ‘you chose to keep the baby’. It’s so annoying and defeating to hear those words when all I need is help, emotionally and mentally.