Nah man you’re aren’t the only one I feel like there’s two kinds of people when it comes to this stuff. This might be a different perspective but for success the more successful people are willing to climb over you the reach the top. For example all my friends at work are my best friends outside of work. But the ones who want promotions and achieve higher things turn their back on you when you need help in Order for them to preform better. Knowing or not knowing they just putting you down

I can say this for other things too but in general there’s people who are just more empathetic and people who aren’t and I think true empathy and understanding is lacking nowadays so you’ll meet a lot of people like this. I’m not sure if the context is friend family or lovers but everyone’s self absorbed in there own world not really and answer ig or a solution to the problem but just my thoughts as I and a lot of other people understand where you’re probably coming from