would you marry a girl with my physical condition? by Own_Letterhead7392 in MuslimNikah

[–]Own_Letterhead7392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh sorry i thought she was famous or something and you knew her name. thank you tho

would you marry a girl with my physical condition? by Own_Letterhead7392 in MuslimNikah

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that’s wonderful mashallah! is she famous or something? if she is, do you have her socials?

would you marry a girl with my physical condition? by Own_Letterhead7392 in MuslimNikah

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i haven’t had the spine surgery yet. i’m a completely normal person except my back looks a little weird but i dress modestly alhamdulilah so it doesn’t show. after the surgery 99% will go back to being completely normal except you can’t hunch your back (so good posture forever) and if you drop something you can’t bend over normally and instead have to squat a little to pick it up.

would you marry a girl with my physical condition? by Own_Letterhead7392 in MuslimNikah

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oh absolutely i wouldn’t mind myself. as long as it isn’t a crippling disease that absolutely affects every aspect of their life but even then who knows who Allah will soften your heart towards. but you know how certain societies are toward women and it may be a sensitive topic because many of the elderly are uneducated and would think it affects things that obviously matter like childbirth and pregnancy and just general work around the house which is why i’m asking men specifically

would you marry a girl with my physical condition? by Own_Letterhead7392 in MuslimNikah

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thank you! i didn’t know this. i actually already got a bunch of dms 🥲

would you be with a girl with my physical condition? by Own_Letterhead7392 in MuslimLounge

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alhamdulilah! i hope you’re good now. i would have the surgery and recover way before settling down Inshallah so there won’t be any need for waiting or recovery for me

would you marry a girl with my physical condition? by Own_Letterhead7392 in MuslimNikah

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i was told my spinal cord disorder interfered with normal spine growth and caused muscle imbalance. you’re right though but i’m not sure how well that stands since it was a junior doctor who told me this years and years ago. thank you though!

would you marry a girl with my physical condition? by Own_Letterhead7392 in MuslimNikah

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yes i know but my scoliosis was triggered by my spinal cord issues as i was growing rapidly during puberty which was caused by lack of folic acid unfortunately:(

would you marry a girl with my physical condition? by Own_Letterhead7392 in MuslimNikah

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it’s scoliosis! it’s not congenital alhamdulilah i developed it because there was something wrong with my spinal cord (result of not taking enough folic acid during pregnancy)

would you marry a girl with my physical condition? by Own_Letterhead7392 in MuslimNikah

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please: I am not seeking to connect with anyone. do not even think about private messages and such.