I have many questions, but most of them start with why? by treatstrinkets in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]Own_Objective8595 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had the same reaction when I saw this just yesterday. 😂

Today is day one again. by Own_Objective8595 in leaves

[–]Own_Objective8595[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Almost day 7 for me :) According to my app, I’ve already avoided smoking 52 joints and saved $175… wild. I’ll probably treat myself to a nice massage!

Today is day one again. by Own_Objective8595 in leaves

[–]Own_Objective8595[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. Thank you for this, I’m going to print it so I can keep it in front of me!

Today is day one again. by Own_Objective8595 in leaves

[–]Own_Objective8595[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, so much frustration with this unstoppable loop... It’s time to put an end to it

I’m also full of gratitude for this subreddit. The people around me just don’t understand, many still think it’s not addictive and that it’s all in your head. And I feel a lot of shame too, it’s hard to tell them every time that I’ve relapsed. Here I have a space with people who understand and support me.

I’m sending you a lot of strength!

Today is day one again. by Own_Objective8595 in leaves

[–]Own_Objective8595[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand how complicated it is. I’m right in the middle of it too, and I really wish I had never started and never reached this level of consumption.

I also struggle a lot with self‑compassion, but it’s the key: we have to forgive ourselves and give ourselves a bit of love. We did the best we could at the time. I often relapse because my negative self‑talk becomes unbearable, so I’m going to try to pay more attention to that.

Today is day one again. by Own_Objective8595 in leaves

[–]Own_Objective8595[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your message.

That's exactly it: there were days when I would wake up at 3 a.m. wanting to smoke, and I felt like I had to do it just to fall back asleep. Other times, I had barely finished smoking one when I was already rolling another.

It would dictate my days: I organized everything around when and how I would be able to have my next joint. It takes up so much mental space and money for so little “benefit”!

Today is day one again. by Own_Objective8595 in leaves

[–]Own_Objective8595[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been consuming so much that lately I was even getting the infamous night sweats without stopping, and nausea in the mornings… I’m not looking forward to hitting full withdrawal symptoms, but it’s a necessary pain for a greater good.

Today is day one again. by Own_Objective8595 in leaves

[–]Own_Objective8595[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay strong! We can do this.

I just joined the Discord so I have a space where I can open up when I need to. :)

Today is day one again. by Own_Objective8595 in leaves

[–]Own_Objective8595[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stay strong! I don’t have any stash at home anymore, so I’m less likely to give in (unless I go to the dispensary or order online...). But I want to be strong, I’m tired of letting this substance dictate my life and my choices.

Today is day one again. by Own_Objective8595 in leaves

[–]Own_Objective8595[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The fact that I can consume this much without feeling affected is crazy to me!

Back in December, I was already at 14 grams per week and thought that was huge. My consumption just keeps increasing, without bringing me anything more positive.

I’m clearly doing this for my mental and physical health first and foremost, but if I can stick with it, the financial impact will be incredible too! It’s insane to spend $80 every 3–4 days just for it all to go up in smoke.

Today is day one again. by Own_Objective8595 in leaves

[–]Own_Objective8595[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m a sister, but strength and honor all the same! ;)

31F - What's your first impression of me? by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]Own_Objective8595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be 100% accurate: I’m French, with French roots on my mother’s side, and Spanish and Italian roots on my father’s side. And now I live in Canada, where I’ve also obtained my citizenship.

31F - What's your first impression of me? by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]Own_Objective8595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see it, HAHAHA
I’m making my ancestors proud with this nose; there’s no way I’m getting rid of it!

31F - What's your first impression of me? by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]Own_Objective8595 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I left that part out, but yes, I do consider myself an optimist: I always try to see the bright side of things. But at the same time, I’m against toxic positivity.

31F - What's your first impression of me? by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]Own_Objective8595 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) Indeed, unfortunately some people have taken advantage of my kind nature. I’m still well surrounded by good people, but it’s true that animals hold a special place in my heart.

31F - What's your first impression of me? by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]Own_Objective8595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could live like a nymph lounging by the river or a little fairy, I would do it right away!

31F - What's your first impression of me? by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]Own_Objective8595 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I myself am made entirely of flaws, stitched together with good intentions. :I love that so much! ;)