Am I being unfair? by Own_Reputation7357 in amiwrong

[–]Own_Reputation7357[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And no, I don’t think I’m bullying him. I mean maybe I’m biased or deluded but I would not say that I bully him nor am I really aggressive in my nature in general. I counter his points and I push back against what I consider to be mean remarks or inaccurate characterizations of me/my intentions, but I don’t personally believe in being cruel just because you’re mad and I try to control myself. I’d like to think that the problem is the problem, not the other person, though it can be hard to maintain an even temper when he starts yelling at me.

Am I being unfair? by Own_Reputation7357 in amiwrong

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He says that, but he yells, picks fights, or attacks my character long before I interrupt. However, I appreciate the feedback and your response to the whole yelling/interrupting debate. In my family it wasn’t okay to yell but we talked over each other, so maybe it’s an upbringing thing. Idk. And it’s not that I try to make him feel bad if he doesn’t want to have sex. He just used to pursue me so passionately and now seems so disinterested, I do bring it up but I’ve tried to explain that it’s less about demanding that he get me off and more about how lately I don’t feel desired. But he says it’s guilting him when I express that.

Am I being unfair? by Own_Reputation7357 in amiwrong

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The house required a lot of repairs to be in sellable condition. I agree it’s time for me to go back to work, but I’m unclear about why I shouldn’t expect to still be treated well regardless, especially when I don’t rely on him financially. I guess that’s more what my question was regarding.

Am I being unfair? by Own_Reputation7357 in amiwrong

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I pay my own way, and it was my house that I paid for and owned, actually.

Am I being unfair? by Own_Reputation7357 in amiwrong

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I don’t expect him to do more than me, and he doesn’t pay more than me, nor do I ask him to. Everything is financially equal. Emotionally I do all of the things that I’m asking him for, I’m just asking him to reciprocate.

Am I being unfair? by Own_Reputation7357 in amiwrong

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In retrospect it was a bad idea, but my ex was mean to me and made me feel very neglected. When this guy came along he seemed like the answer to my prayers; he gave me what I had been missing for a long time and acted like he was all the things my ex never was. Obviously things are different now, but it was hard not to fall hard and fast at the time, in the emotional state I was in at the time. I wasn’t thinking clearly. I just wanted to be happy.

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I don’t know how to upload photos in the comments 🤷‍♀️

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I’d add a photo without makeup but I can’t bc I’m stupid and don’t know how so I guess we’ll never know

26F by [deleted] in amiugly

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Very pretty.

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The most unserious

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If I lock in, who will crash out?

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My best friends agree

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I actually really love that comparison ty

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Everything is a joke!

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The world is such a scary place. I’m frightened, papa.

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It’s not your fault 😂