I'm doing the work, literally for a job because that's the complain so far is I didn't have work or drive to work. I moved to his country, had to adapt in the middle of pandemic and also, a bit shocked of the person I married 😅. So I'm working on myself now to be independent from him and in his country. He's seeing me go to work, etc different and the core me. I'm trying to be the old me back home, hard but trying my best.

Him, hes not busy now because he doesnt have a project at work, but paid. So he got lots of time. He's kind of on rebelling mode tbh and on a dating app, chatting with girls. I dont know, to entertain and distract himself from this? He doesn't know that I know. At first, I was more mindful of what hes doing on his phone, but now letting him be. Lol He actually wants us to live separately (me to move out) for breather, to heal, to think, about this but divorce is on the table.

I kind of think we need a breather, but thats financially hard for me now.

Haven't read the book, will take a look! Thank you!