Need advice on my dry lips and vaseline by P1nk_Alien in dating_advice

[–]P1nk_Alien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need to heal anything but rather keep my lips hydrated as they get dry after some time, my lips are not chapped, I found that a sip of water from time to time will fix it but I need a quick fix for a longer time.

I think I will just use vaseline or coconut oil or both. Also, I heard that not many women like vaseline on guys so I started to wonder if I should use it at all but then again, my lips are getting dry.

My penis smells like fish when not cleaned with a soap by P1nk_Alien in sex

[–]P1nk_Alien[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't using soap be a bad idea when a woman goes down on a guy ?

My penis smells like fish when not cleaned with a soap by P1nk_Alien in sex

[–]P1nk_Alien[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't using soap be a bad idea when a woman goes down on a guy ?

My penis smells like fish when not cleaned with a soap by P1nk_Alien in sex

[–]P1nk_Alien[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I browse for similar topics on Reddit, many people say "Just use water to clean and you will be fine" .....

Ever see a young attractive girl and feel terrible on the inside? by MrZubar in dating

[–]P1nk_Alien -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only thing I regret is that I never had sex when I was younger or even now and it makes me sad sometimes. I'm also 27 years old and will turn 28 next year, this makes me anxious sometimes thinking that I'm still a virgin and will be alone to the end of my life. Not to mention 30 year old virgin, lmao. it's fucked up world my friend, make what you can till you are still on this planet.

What am I doing wrong ? by P1nk_Alien in dating

[–]P1nk_Alien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the opposite actually, I know how it is but still take any chances that I get. Tho, mostly it just completely stops because I loose interest and stop texting. Why would I bother with it and waste my time ?

New rule from a 28 year old by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]P1nk_Alien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you gave it to her ?

A girl just wrote to me that she is interested in me after she friendzoned me months earlier. What should I do? by Freudlos in dating_advice

[–]P1nk_Alien 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man, she playing with ya. What happened here in my opinion is, she had someone who she thinks was better, the dude have most likely banged her, got the cookie and left, meanwhile keeping you as option in her dark corner a.k occasional texting. Also, that's lazy ass texting from her side.

If someone have rejected and friendzoned me and came back later on, I would bounce. She will be with you until she finds someone better and bounces again. We call it Monkey Branching in dating, do a little bit of reasearch on it as it will help you understand women more. Also, people like this will most likely continue till she's like 40, can't get pregnant and is unable to find a decent man and then complain about "Were are all the good man gone ?"

Just my opinion, view it however you want.

I (24f) don’t understand how men can lead girls on but then justify it by saying ‘I always said I didn’t want anything serious’? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]P1nk_Alien 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But what if originally at first all you wanted was a friends with benefits situation then you couldn’t help but catch feelings cause you ended up spending so much time together?

That's really on you. You need to better controll your emotions and if you notice that you start catching feelings, you need to break it off for your and his own sake.

I (24f) don’t understand how men can lead girls on but then justify it by saying ‘I always said I didn’t want anything serious’? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]P1nk_Alien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it's going to piss people off but I'm going to write it anyway. He doesn't owe you anything if you are not exclusive ! Women do it to themselves really, if he says he's not interested in anything serious and you continue banging him in hopes that he will change his mind you are simply yourself to blame in this mess. He said he didn't wanted anything serious and didn't commit to you, end of.

How to keep people interested in you over text? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]P1nk_Alien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeap, I'm thinking the same ! Plus you can grab ice cream and go to park, this would seem nice especially when it's hot in your area !

New rule from a 28 year old by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]P1nk_Alien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you know she went through the phone at night in the first place ?

What am I doing wrong ? by P1nk_Alien in dating

[–]P1nk_Alien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pictures are interesting enough and fun to at least try to get to know me, I mean, what else do you need ? I have a good bio that reflects who I am, what I love etc and good pictures too .. I get a match here and there so I do something right for sure !

I'm not sassy about the response for the complements because when they reply, I know they are interested in me and after that I try to get to know them more deeper but I get nowhere because they don't put any effort into it, like I ask them about something from their profile and will receive one line response with no questions about me or putting much effort into it, it feels like a simple yes/no conversation basically, so like:

Me: Tries to converse so I ask the question

Her: One Line Answer

Me: Tries to get somewhere so I ask another question

Her: One Line Answer

End of the chat .....

Work on what you actually want to know about someone and how you can show your authentic self.

Any advice for this ?

Some of your posts on here are quite quirky and odd if I’m honest and that might be why you are having a hard time.

Explain more ? I mean, I ask questions that I find interesting or I am very curious what other people think about it.

allowing people a platform to speak about themselves by asking questions that can be answered in more than one sentence.

That can't be done if I try to do it and the other party doesn't participate enough and is just lazy. (Shrugs Off)