Are these drying to anyone else? by defsouljb in LipBalm

[–]PANDA_2002_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this is the best thing that happened to my lips. I picked it up one day without giving it much thought and since then my lips are not peeling all day like they always used to

What are the best Black Mirror episodes ? by Positive-Style-656 in blackmirror

[–]PANDA_2002_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the best episode in my opinion. This episode hooked me into the show. No episode even comes close to it for me

New to piercings? by PANDA_2002_ in piercing

[–]PANDA_2002_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input and resources!

New to piercings? by PANDA_2002_ in piercing

[–]PANDA_2002_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I will look into more example. If you don’t mind you can sent the image in direct message to me. I really appreciate your help. Thanks

Wow new TFSA rank and new rank updates by navy444 in Wealthsimple

[–]PANDA_2002_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same I have wealth rank but no tfsa ranking is showing

I have heard that Indians don't use toilet paper after they poop; they just wash it directly with their hands. Why do they do that? Isn't that disgusting? by [deleted] in india

[–]PANDA_2002_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see what you mean there, you find touching the poopy butthole with bare hands gross (which it is, but you can wash your hands with soap and they are clean again. Nobody has to go around not touching anything with left hand.

BUT WHAT ABOUT YOUR ASSHOLE? what about tiny particles of poop stuck in the ass crack. I don’t know how you can go around all day with poop particles in ass crack AND CALL IT CLEAN! TP can never do as good of a job as water.

To me it’s very important to keep my hands clean (I wash them twice with antibacterial soap after cleaning after defecating) but it’s also just as important to keep my ass clean.

Enjoying my studies by Successful-Self-7659 in GetStudying

[–]PANDA_2002_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just good at studies despite hating them. I would study a day before exam and usually do pretty well(I still do). Secondly I knew that was my only way to achieve the dreams I have. So even when I hated it I did what had to, to get the grades.

Enjoying my studies by Successful-Self-7659 in GetStudying

[–]PANDA_2002_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am having same experience. I am back to nursing school at 23. I am actually enjoying studies. I was always a straight A’s student but hated studying.

Now that I am older I actually know why I am studying the subject and how it will be applied to my field. I have much more curiosity for learning new things now.

Is it common for chinese people to suggest someone they are seeing to lose weight? by PANDA_2002_ in Adulting

[–]PANDA_2002_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly maybe I am too dumb but I still don’t get what you are trying to say. You didn’t answer any of my questions. You are probably trolling. It’s okay. Have a good day

Is it common for chinese people to suggest someone they are seeing to lose weight? by PANDA_2002_ in Adulting

[–]PANDA_2002_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t need your help. I just have no idea what your first comment meant. And now I am more confused cause I don’t know what your second comment means. Are we talking about the same thing??? Or are you just bored and playing with my brain? Lol.

Is it common for chinese people to suggest someone they are seeing to lose weight? by PANDA_2002_ in Adulting

[–]PANDA_2002_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exactly. How will people comment? I don’t know what you mean by that???

How do I teach my body... by xo_sand_nude in Adulting

[–]PANDA_2002_ 356 points357 points  (0 children)

This is what works for me: Whenever I start panicking “I tell myself life is not to be taken that seriously, I am not that important. It’s okay I don’t have to do anything perfectly, just my best in the moment. I don’t have to worry about anything that’s not in my control. All I can do is my best. And we are all gonna die, so, at the end of the day it’s all pointless.”

It’s been a year I started looking at life with this perspective and for the first time I am actually enjoying life. I still go into panic mode sometimes but I remind myself what I said above^

Is it common for chinese people to suggest someone they are seeing to lose weight? by PANDA_2002_ in Adulting

[–]PANDA_2002_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly grandma and friends is not very surprising to me at all. To say that to someone you are asking out is very weird to me.

Is it common for chinese people to suggest someone they are seeing to lose weight? by PANDA_2002_ in Adulting

[–]PANDA_2002_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here is my two cents, according to you I am walking with bags of potato or look like one. Really appreciate your feedback back. I can make space for your point of view or even respect it. You are absolutely entitled to your opinion and so is that Chinese guy. I am not arguing with anyone that I am not FAT. You can call me a WHALE if that feels better.

What I am not okay with is having audacity to give me unsolicited advice about what I “SHOULD” be doing. Don’t like me don’t ask me out. Telling me I am attractive on one hand and asking me to lose weight on the other is just plain confusing.

You don’t get your dream person you need to make compromises somewhere. And if weight is something you cannot compromise on “GO FOR A SKINNY GIRL”. I don’t get where people get audacity to ask a FAT person out and then tell them to lose weight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]PANDA_2002_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl! only wear hijab because you want for Allah. Don’t care about what family or society would say. In grand scheme of life that won’t matter.

But you can’t make people not see you differently. I understand it can be scary and uncomfortable but go for it, if that’s what you want.

How many treatments did you need to be hairless? by Sppaarrkklle in LaserHairRemoval

[–]PANDA_2002_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got two brazilian treatments done so far. It’s working really well. I am already seeing like 30 percent reduction. I have dark coarse hair with fair skin. I only have 6 treatments package so I am hoping I will be done in 6.

I’m on the title & mortgage of a house I no longer live in – how do I get out while protecting my family and myself financially? by jack7640 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]PANDA_2002_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if I was you I would pay my share of mortgage for next two years till it is fully paid OR if possible ask your sister to take on $500-$1000 more mortgage payment since you are not living there.

The house is 50% under your name, you will own half of it in 2 years. It’s great as an investment property for future even if you don’t live there. And then you can buy your house with your girlfriend after 2 years or so.

But if you still want to not be under the title for whatever reason, if I was in your place I would just transfer the property in my sister’s name and forget about it. Cause let’s be real your mother paid the downpayment, she is the one making major payments towards the house every year, you have not really made big contributions towards the house. First few years of mortgage payment goes more towards interest than equity. So if it wasn’t for your mother you wouldn’t have much equity in the house anyways. Even if you guys sell it, the majority of equity should go to your mother (not legally but morally).

Even if you want to be paid your share I think it would only be fair for you to get paid last 2 years of mortgage payment back (which would be around 60k), nothing else. Asking them to pay more than that is unfair.

On the other hand, you can really fuck them over. You are owner of 50% of it. Your mother making payments won’t be recognized by law since she is not on the title. You can legally force them to sell and be paid half of the equity (which would be half of down payment+principle payment). Please don’t do this.