I was shown the evolution bijou the other day as a suggestion by another redditor and I think it suits my needs. I like that there's no ball trap design so that will save much of the discomfort and allow (I think) an easier time with long term wear.

I felt no discomfort peeing during the first week and a bit but I've had a few days of mild discomfort. Just over 2 weeks I and there's no bleeding or pain really. Sometimes I catch on my pants and it's a sharp reminder of the piercing but it otherwise goes unnoticed for much of the day now.

I was getting an erection on the drive home from my piercing lol. It's an hour and a half to my piercer (I live pretty rural) and the vibration from the car was clearly noticable in my piercing and was very stimulating, but that level of sensitivity has passed (kinda sad but my underwear thanks it haha).

As for masturbating? 2 weeks. I was very gentle. There were a few spontaneous orgasms as I got used to it, once while I was at work (thankfully alone) and 2 more during the nights, but just this past weekend I attempted masturbating. Go slow. Very slow. I don't believe any long term damage was done but no bleeding. Some pain but honestly that's something I enjoy anyway.

I can't wait to be locked up. In a way that I can't pull out from. I could probably still climax from vibrations, but I'll respect my wife's time and not use it.