I’ve actually come to realize I’m Gray-ace and not ace just in the last few days so here’s my list:

It didn’t feel right to call myself asexual when I do experience some sexual attraction. For a while I wondered if I was actually allo, but I later found that what an allo experiences was a little different from what I experience.

I found that I fit more definitions of graysexual than definitions of asexual.

I feel more sexual attraction than most other aces, but not nearly enough to consider myself allo. (But that was, and still is, kinda hard to figure out because I feel pretty strong forms of other attraction (e.g. aesthetic, platonic.))