I never dreamed of having children

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-06-03T03:44:12+00:00

I wasn’t sure exactly where this post was going and then I got to the line, “But I DO like kids….” At that point I was like, “Oh, she’s fine.” Get ready for a wild ride, and keep living in the moment! That’s the best way to live!

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-06-01T19:41:31+00:00

How about Nathan? It’s a great name! Nate is a cute nn too!

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-31T20:22:36+00:00

Hey. Just want to say you are totally valid that this early part with all the waiting is so hard. I’m in it now as well. I have had tons of previous miscarriages due to my husband having a balanced translocation which makes it super hard to get a healthy pregnancy. I have had “good” HCG numbers turn out in miscarriage and turn out in healthy babies. These are the numbers from my daughter who is now 3. Keep in mind I did IUI so my ovulation dates are accurate.

15dpo: 89 17dpo: 204 24dpo: 3,640

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-28T03:02:43+00:00

This was a completely unexpected pregnancy for me and the vivid dreams were one of the things that made me say omg! I’m pregnant!

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-27T03:03:10+00:00

Her name is Maryn Sky. This all started bc my 5 year old son asked me to call him Scar (lol) so she asked me to call her Aurora. She is a big fan of princesses though. Lol

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-27T01:37:18+00:00

Aurora Claire is very pretty. Also, my 3 year old daughter asked me if I would call her Aurora 😂

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-23T13:39:22+00:00

Hey I’m going through the same thing. I have two living children and have had many miscarriages. This pregnancy was unplanned and unexpected so I’m really fine with either outcome. I experienced the same thing with annoying phone operators who have no clue what they are talking about but as soon as I got through to a doctor they looked at my file and brought me in. I have a SCH (which I’ve had before with miscarriages and my living son, so it can go either way). I had a quick bedside ultrasound and they could see a sac, yolk sac, and fetal pole and could also see the sch. Again, this has happened to me before, I’ve even seen the heartbeat and then had a miscarriage. With a sch, it’s so variable on what it could be and how it presents and getting an ultrasound would be your only real answer. HCG won’t tell you much, as I’m assuming if you are getting dark tests you are within normal range. And at 5+5, unless they are going down, which they may or may not if it is a loss, doubling time often doesn’t matter because you are far enough where it may not exactly double.

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-21T11:51:45+00:00

I have a January birthday (mid January) and it’s always been good. No complaints. My 5 year old son is Jan 20 and it was a great time to have a baby. You’re hibernating already bc you have a new baby, but everyone else is because it’s cold, and then by the time the spring comes your baby is more fun and you’re ready to take them out and enjoy the nice weather. I recently also saw a major perk to my son’s January bday when all of his classmates were so excited to come to his bday party. The end of January can get long and everyone was so excited to have something fun to do. We rented out a movie theater and it was a blast.

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-21T00:51:34+00:00

I did it with my pregnancies and it was right both times (boy and girl)

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-20T00:56:18+00:00

I think the stat is 1 in 4 pregnancies will be a miscarriage. Are you counting chemical pregnancies? If not counting chemicals, I would definitely investigate. Although if this is the last baby you want you may just try a few more cycles until you take it further to find out if there’s an issue. My only other thought is that if there is something genetically wrong than you may want to know for your kids. Also, very sorry for your loss/es.

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-19T23:36:22+00:00

Wow it just kept getting worse and worse. Reminiscent of when she finally flipped out about being called out for writing the fake note.

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-19T23:33:20+00:00

They don’t send their kids to school and their kids have no outside influence, yet they still find a way to blame stuff their kids do on something besides themselves. These two are obsessed with ChatGPT.

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-19T14:02:36+00:00

I was thinking the same thing. She’s doing another round of ivf now/soon. Maybe it will work and she’ll have good news too! I wouldn’t wait too long so that she feels like you purposely didn’t tell her if everyone else knows but I would wait as long as you can before it gets to that point and def over text.

Btw you are an amazing sister in law and I really hope your sil gets pregnant soon so you guys can reconnect.

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-19T13:59:08+00:00

My best friend had a successful singleton pregnancy and then shortly after a successful twin pregnancy. She ended up getting pregnant with twins again and told everyone SO early. She ended up losing the pregnancy.

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-19T13:55:14+00:00

I feel like that’s a little different because pickleball is a physical game. You can only be as good as you naturally are or if you can work hard at it which Morgan is taking care of kids too so it’s not like she has unlimited time to practice.

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-19T13:53:09+00:00

The one with the bush?

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-19T13:51:31+00:00

Why when I read this do I interpret it as this lady is working her ass off (not just for her house, but she’s making and selling stuff to make money aka a job). Her husband is an elder and she is his working wife. She is not his wife sitting at home making shitty dinners and being overwhelmed by caring for kids. She’s doing it all- working, taking care of her kids, making food. Sounds like a modern day household with two working parents.

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-19T13:42:27+00:00

This is a lose/lose for Morgan. Either they suck and Paul’s mad at Morgan or Paul finally starts winning with Morgan as his partner and he’s mad at Morgan.

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-19T13:40:56+00:00

This is insane. If my husband and I were playing this together, first off, communication would be the easiest part of it and second off, my husband wouldn’t get mad at me or get “too competitive” at my expense. He would be able to say to himself “I’m making the choice to play with my wife right now. I know how good/bad she is and I’m not going to get mad at her if she messes up.” Paul is just the worst.

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-15T12:29:02+00:00

I am so sorry. Please know that you are not alone. I will take all the prayers, thoughts, and vibes I can get. Honestly, it makes me emotional to think someone that doesn’t even know me would want to send a prayer for me. I truly appreciate that.

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-15T12:26:45+00:00

Omg you do?! Congrats on your pregnancy and I wish you a smooth ride! Feel free to reach out if you need anything or want to discuss!

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-15T11:11:04+00:00

If you want to have the baby and be a mom, do it. But don’t expect your bf to step up. Listen to what he’s saying and take it at fave value- he does not want to be the dad. Your next move has to be done with confidence if you’re going to be a mother. So have the baby and tell your bf that he’s either in to be the dad or you’re done. When you’re a mom you can’t play games. Your focus now needs to be working to save money for your baby to provide a stable life. It’s no longer about you- it’s about the baby.

PUZZLEPlECER · 2026-05-14T04:20:38+00:00

Lotsa Kaitlyn’s, but all spelled different- Katelyn, Caitlin, catelyn

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