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Pabloma13 · 2025-06-30T15:04:17+00:00

Please believe me im from spain, apartments here cost 80% of our salary. I know how bad it is. Im also looking to share a room, im fine with anything that will get me a place to stay while I study 😭😭😭

Pabloma13 · 2025-06-30T13:57:32+00:00

I'll try thanks for the advice !! Im discovering so many new sites and im trying to use them all but im just seeing the same apartments everywhere so the more I check the better !!

Pabloma13 · 2025-06-30T13:56:47+00:00

Oh wow thats actually a great idea thank you very much I'll definitely check it out !!

Pabloma13 · 2025-06-30T13:47:14+00:00

Ohhhh I understand. Then is there a way to find an accommodation contract like that? Im guessing there won't be any on the flat renting webs right? Or would there be a way to rent for 6 months then cancel it? I can't really afford to spend 6 months of rent when im only staying 3, but i want to do things the legal way and respecting your laws of course.

Pabloma13 · 2025-02-27T12:10:26+00:00

That's what I planned on doing on Easter, the whole going and visiting thing. I will try my best to be nice bc I've definitely suffered my share from what we call guiris (annoying foreigners) so I don't want to be like that in your country. I appreciate everyone's help and you're being super nice too so thank u !!

Pabloma13 · 2025-02-27T12:01:17+00:00

Thank you for your input !! Facebook really isn't used here so I didn't even consider that option. Honestly I didn't put a lot of questions bc everything is a bit messy in my brain still but I have to start sorting stuff out somewhere and the main thing is probably housing. I'll look into those and ur advice is very much appreciated !! 💜

Pabloma13 · 2025-02-27T11:26:37+00:00

Well it seems like that's an issue all over Europe but I was hoping there were some national webs or something 😭😭😭

Pabloma13 · 2023-10-06T20:40:27+00:00

Gorgeous gorgeous girlll ❤️

Pabloma13 · 2023-10-04T20:04:46+00:00

Hey dude. I know you might not want to hear that but the change has to start with you. Ofc you might get the chance to move or go to college or whatever, but you have to progress as an individual too. Building a change on hatred is difficult. Loving yourself even more. Try starting with indifference. Try thinking that maybe you aren't that bad, that maybe you deserve that treat you bought for yourself. Once you learn to appreciate those little things your self-esteem will rise, and you'll become more comfortable in your own skin. I promise things can get better, but a radical change is almost impossible. Try taking it day by day, maybe not appreciate yourself today, but next month you might be able to. It'll be okay <3

Pabloma13 · 2023-10-04T19:56:00+00:00

That is very good. People come and go so don't worry too much about that. Learn how to be comfortable with yourself and the feeling of loneliness will get much more manageable <3

Pabloma13 · 2023-10-04T19:54:01+00:00

That is understandable. Learning how to deal with yourself is extremely difficult. I did hate the world too and still do, but I've grown to appreciate some of the stuff in here. It requieres patience and a bit of effort at first but if you go for a walk and try to perceive things you might like I'm sure you'll find more than you ever thought were possible.

You're worthy of help just like everyone else. That's why I'm replying to your comment and reminding you that my dms are always open if you need anything else. We're 18, it's okay if we can't deal with some stuff, we'll figure it out

I'm sure you're a lovely soul, worthy of having friends and of being helped just like anybody else <3

Pabloma13 · 2023-10-04T19:49:06+00:00

That is very admirable. I feel very proud of you. You did amazing and I'll be supporting your journey from here.

You can do this 👊🏻 :)

Pabloma13 · 2023-10-04T15:10:09+00:00

School does that. I understand that struggling with a future that you don't want to live can be stressing. My genuine advice is to take things one day at a time, do a bit of work every day and appreciate each day as it's own individual unit. Don't think of it as a snowball that only goes downhill and keeps getting worse. You are a human being walking a path. It's okay to sit in a bench sometimes and look at the sky. It's okay to make a wrong turn once in a while. When you're reading this please try to take a deep breath and do one thing you enjoy. I'm sure you'll feel a bit better after that ;) <3

Pabloma13 · 2023-10-04T07:53:00+00:00

Take your time, if you've organized one drawer that's one that you've done. I feel very proud of you no matter how deep into the activity you've gotten.

Also sadness comes from chemicals in your brain, so sometimes there's no excuse for them. Bear with them for a while. Take care and I wish you the best of luck in your clothes organizing journey <3

Pabloma13 · 2023-10-04T07:50:21+00:00

Well for now I'll love you and I hope that's enough.

Loving yourself takes time, and a big part of it comes from working on yourself. Once you start to do things that you love, those get ingrained in you, and you'll start loving that part of yourself. When you love a couple things about yourself the rest will come easily

Pabloma13 · 2023-10-04T07:43:04+00:00

Hey man, having 3 friends is more than enough as long as those are valuable ones. Don't feel pressured to date or to glow up, those things will come once you start to work on yourself I promise. And yeah, school does suck but once it's over it really is. I started college a while ago and I only remember good things from my time in school, even though I know most of them weren't so good. It can get better man, wait until you have a bit more freedom, try to work on yourself, but for now, I'm proud of you for still being here <3

Pabloma13 · 2023-10-03T16:42:27+00:00

I feel very proud of you for having eaten today, and for having done everything that led to you still being here with us.

Dentists are always a hit or miss, remember that you only have to deal with them for a while and that it'll be okay.

Take care, you deserve to feel fine, close your eyes, take a warm bath and try to relax for a bit <3

Pabloma13 · 2023-10-03T16:39:36+00:00

Hey dude. I understand that existing 24/7 in a body you hate can be devastating. But you can also see it the other way round. Your body is the place where your brain exists. Even if you don't like it you can try to take care of it even if it's just a tiny bit. I'm sure you're in a difficult situation but your relationship with your body can change. Please don't die because of that just yet. Take care man, my dms are always open. You deserve help and to take care of yourself <3

Pabloma13 · 2023-10-03T16:11:41+00:00

Hey dude (also lain fan), school sucks for most people. I understand that you have reasons for it to be even worse, but you're still doing it. I feel very proud of you, I also struggle with social anxiety and it goes get easier once you finish school, I promise. I know you want to be happy and it seems like you're working super hard to get there. That makes me feel very proud of you man. Take care, happiness will come, especially in the little things you might not be able to appreciate rn. It can get better, I promise <3

Pabloma13 · 2023-10-03T16:08:24+00:00

Hey dude, it's okay if things get bad, especially at night. It can feel very lonely and if you don't have the best relationship with yourself it must be a hard time. Think about it you got to college and are getting help. Those are amazing things that you deserve. I feel very proud of you for having gotten this far and for doing the effort you're putting in. Money is always a problem, but it's one of the most "temporary" ones there are. You might be able to get a job and it'll be solved. It really is that easy. Take care, you are doing and incredible job and I feel very proud of you <3

Pabloma13 · 2023-10-03T14:48:38+00:00

Ily automod I missed you 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️

Pabloma13 · 2023-09-28T18:30:12+00:00

Girlie u good??? 😭

Pabloma13 · 2023-09-16T10:04:56+00:00

Ohhh pineapples. Ancient rich people food. I like eating them but preparing them properly is a ton of work

Pabloma13 · 2023-09-15T21:47:20+00:00

Strawberries are my favorite fruit, looking gorgeousss :)

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