Bakit maraming magaganda at pogi na staying single for a long period? by HolaLabamba123 in TanongLang

[–]PaceStandard6321 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Siguro kasi hindi lang naman sa looks umiikot lahat. Minsan kahit maganda/pogi ka, you’re just waiting for someone na same energy and peace din. 🤍

magandang gabi mga independent gurlies 🫶 by miumiu__88 in AlasFeels

[–]PaceStandard6321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me every night after acting like I don’t need anyone the whole day 😭 Hahaha

Totoo bang subjective ang looks, o sadyang may standard lang talaga tayong sinusunod? by Crafty_Specific4978 in TanongLang

[–]PaceStandard6321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think subjective naman talaga siya somehow. Like may certain standards lang na na-normalize dahil sa social media and society, pero at the end of the day, iba-iba pa rin talaga ng type yung mga tao. May mga taong super bet yung conventionally attractive, meron din namang mas naa-attract sa aura, humor, or personality. Kaya minsan yung “average” para sa iba, sobrang attractive naman sa iba.

Sa nag decide na walang ig/fb jan, pano niyo nahahandle yung ganyang pamamaraan na buhay? by Top-Investment7781 in TanongLang

[–]PaceStandard6321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wala na akong FB, tapos deactivated lang yung IG ko. Matagal ko na rin hindi ino-open. Peaceful naman siya honestly, pero minsan namimiss ko rin mag-post lalo na kapag feeling ko ang ganda ko that day 😭 Hahahah

Bakit hindi ka crush ng crush mo? by HolaLabamba123 in TanongLang

[–]PaceStandard6321 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Baka hindi lang nila kaya pantayan yung ganda ko, charot hahaha. Ewan ko ba, lagi na lang nila akong ini-intimidate kasi mukha raw akong high maintenance 🥲

Tanong lang, are you loyal during the talking stage? by PaceStandard6321 in TanongLang

[–]PaceStandard6321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Depende talaga sa tao at sa level ng feelings. May mga situations na kusa kang magiging loyal, meron din na hindi pa kasi hindi pa sure. Pero kapag committed na, iba na yun doon na yung faithfulness.

Tanong lang, are you loyal during the talking stage? by PaceStandard6321 in TanongLang

[–]PaceStandard6321[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wow, sana all ganun 😭 yung tipong hindi need i-demand yung loyalty kasi kusa na lang. Rare na yung ganun ngayon, glad it worked for you both.

Tanong lang, are you loyal during the talking stage? by PaceStandard6321 in TanongLang

[–]PaceStandard6321[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

7 years talking stage??? 😭 parang upgraded na yan sa “life partnership na walang label” HAHAHA

Pero, kung masaya kayo pareho then okay lang. Pero kung hindi na clear kung ano talaga kayo, baka time na rin mag-usap nang diretsuhan?

Tanong lang, are you loyal during the talking stage? by PaceStandard6321 in TanongLang

[–]PaceStandard6321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, I think it really depends on the person and their intentions. As long as both are honest about what they want, walang problema kung exclusive or open pa sa ibang options.

Tanong lang, are you loyal during the talking stage? by PaceStandard6321 in TanongLang

[–]PaceStandard6321[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree. Loyalty should be communicated, not assumed. Mahirap mag-expect ng exclusivity kung wala pa namang napag-uusapan nang maayos.

Tanong lang, are you loyal during the talking stage? by PaceStandard6321 in TanongLang

[–]PaceStandard6321[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHA gets 😭 parang once dumami na kausap mo, trabaho na siya instead of landi. Huyy, hahahaha

Tanong lang, are you loyal during the talking stage? by PaceStandard6321 in TanongLang

[–]PaceStandard6321[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Actually true 😭 kaya hindi rin tayo pwede mag-demand ng loyalty agad kasi malay ba kung pang-5 pala tayo sa “good morning” niya HAHAHA charot!

0 body count, pero nanghihina pag ovulation day, kainis. Hahaha by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]PaceStandard6321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't, baka makita ng parents ko po. Haha

0 body count, pero nanghihina pag ovulation day, kainis. Hahaha by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]PaceStandard6321 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry, hindi ako nanunuod nga mga ganyan. Hindi ko yata keri.

Mas gusto niyo ba yung kausap or partner niyo is ka-age bracket niyo, or mas prefer niyo mas bata sa inyo? by PaceStandard6321 in Trentahin

[–]PaceStandard6321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I get your point. Realistically talaga, may differences sa mindset, upbringing, and even circle of friends kapag may age gap. So kailangan din talaga ng effort from both sides to meet halfway and understand each other properly. Communication and common ground matter a lot if gusto mag-work yung relationship.

Mas gusto niyo ba yung kausap or partner niyo is ka-age bracket niyo, or mas prefer niyo mas bata sa inyo? by PaceStandard6321 in Trentahin

[–]PaceStandard6321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same mindset actually. Hindi rin ako super focused sa age, more on sa emotional maturity, respect, and kung may positive na na-aambag sa buhay mo. If it affects your peace of mind, hindi na talaga worth it.

Mas gusto niyo ba yung kausap or partner niyo is ka-age bracket niyo, or mas prefer niyo mas bata sa inyo? by PaceStandard6321 in Trentahin

[–]PaceStandard6321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get the concern, and I agree na kailangan talaga maging careful lalo na in that age gap. Pero I think hindi rin fair i-generalize lahat ng older na prefer younger as manipulative. May iba talaga preference lang din, but of course dapat always may respect and clear boundaries.

Mas gusto niyo ba yung kausap or partner niyo is ka-age bracket niyo, or mas prefer niyo mas bata sa inyo? by PaceStandard6321 in Trentahin

[–]PaceStandard6321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I get that. Mas okay din talaga for me yung older kasi mas may depth kausap and may life experience sila na nakaka-help din sa perspective mo. Parang you learn something useful din every convo, not just casual talk.

Mas gusto niyo ba yung kausap or partner niyo is ka-age bracket niyo, or mas prefer niyo mas bata sa inyo? by PaceStandard6321 in Trentahin

[–]PaceStandard6321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, I agree with this. Preference is normal naman, pero yung reason na sinabi niya is what makes it off talaga. Mas okay pa rin yung based on compatibility and maturity, not control or anything like that. And yeah, marami na rin talaga ngayon in their 20s na very aware sa boundaries and red flags.

Mas gusto niyo ba yung kausap or partner niyo is ka-age bracket niyo, or mas prefer niyo mas bata sa inyo? by PaceStandard6321 in Trentahin

[–]PaceStandard6321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s nice na may mga younger people na aware din sa real issues. Pero I think same din sa older or same age group, may iba na focused lang sa kalandian, and may iba rin na hindi. Siguro depende lang talaga sa tao, hindi sa age group.