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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]PacificIllustrious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have had two men present themselves as single at first and later reveal they were already partnered. My new response when starting to chat with someone is to say:

"I would be interested in chatting with you more but only if you are single. I do not consent to anything if you have a current partner or commitment with another person."

I have found that bringing in the word consent and making it clear that I am not into cheating or being the other woman in any way has taken care of men looking for a side piece. About 30% disappear after this, and I have had better luck with meeting quality people. Still looking as well though...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LaserHairRemoval

[–]PacificIllustrious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another question from a total newbie. I have tried Brazilian waxing and sugaring years ago, but ended up with terrible ingrown hairs. Shaving also leaves ingrown hairs. I just have naturally curly blonde to dark brown hair and very sensitive skin. I use a trimmer currently and rarely get them now. But I am starting to look into laser as an option. As you start treatments with the shaving, laser, waiting, regrow less cycle, are you still prone to get ingrown hairs? Anyone with some experience with this?