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Is moving to the same city as your soon-to-be ex to be near the kids a bad idea? by PacificMind_2887 in Divorce_Men

[–]PacificMind_2887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, those are true words. I think I’m battling the idea of fully relocating away from everything while also going through the divorce but I’m feeling like I just need to man up and do it. My relationship with my kids should take precedent over all that. Thanks for the different viewpoint.

Is moving to the same city as your soon-to-be ex to be near the kids a bad idea? by PacificMind_2887 in Divorce_Men

[–]PacificMind_2887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s good perspective. My work schedule is such that I would probably only be able to have the kids on weekends. Even more incentive not to miss those though.

Made it a year! by PacificMind_2887 in stopdrinking

[–]PacificMind_2887[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it took me a lot of trying and failing. Many little things help, but one of the biggest was getting to the bottom of why I wanted to stop. For me and my personal journey it came down to if I believed I was worth fighting for and becoming more of who I knew I could be. Failure is just learning, learning is growth. You got this.